English
More and more we hear and see the increase of violence in all media. We see violence of all kinds, but violence against oneself is rarely discussed. Self-abuse is the continuation of the violence that others exercised against us.
There are people who hurt themselves, demean themselves, bite themselves, hit themselves, because that is what others did to them. Therefore, it is not enough for us to get out of the abuse that others exert on our lives, whether physical or verbal, we need to get out of the self-abuse that we exert in many different ways against ourselves.
People who self-abuse want to receive something good but they sit in the wrong place; they want, yes, the good, but there is a part of them that seeks danger, seeks to be hurt. Their minds are filled with toxic phrases and obligations that need to be ripped away.
The toxic person told you that you don't deserve it, it is not for you, and because you believed it you feel that you are not worthy of the blessing, of the good, you think that you cannot grow except through sacrifice, except there is pain.
The toxic person told you that you cannot. When a person holds that phrase in their mind, their self-esteem is destroyed and then they walk through life idealizing others.
The toxic person told you to be good. These people are looking for you to repress your emotions and just put on a good face. Because what happens to you is the least of it.
The toxic person told you to kill yourself like a donkey. Some women believe that the more problems they carry from those around them, the better people they will be. Women who never ask for themselves, it is always for others.
Contrary to a toxic faith, a healthy faith teaches principles that help you to enjoy life more each day and to relate healthily with others.
Enjoy everything, whatever comes your way, enjoy it.