LOL...Your behaviour is not something I'd like to change necessarily, its something I disagree with. There is a distinct difference!

so you do not believe I should be able to vote as I like

So how does the community reach consensus on what is acceptable and what isn't? We use personal voting to how approval or disapproval. You can't have one without the other! If you bought votes, it would rain downvotes on your post, big downvotes too so out of interest, do agree or disagree with paid for votes, and if not, would you use downvotes on someone who used them?