You Are Not Everyone's Cup of Tea

in GEMS3 years ago

Before reading this post, I will want you to reason with it very well before agreeing to it. It's open for your own view but here is my view on it.

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You should know the world we live in. The world is filled with people who will simply not like you no matter what you do or how much you try. The world is also filled with people who will love you fiercely (these people will go to extreme just to show you love and that is bad).

The ones who love you and without conditions are your people

Don't waste your precious time and your fragile heart to try to convince people that you have value because they simply don't like you. They will still miss it completely, they have been missing it. They will not buy what you are trying to sell.

Don't try to convince them to walk with you on your own path, every person has his or her own path to follow. Trying to make them walk on yours will only waste your time and harm your emotional good health.

You are not for them just as they are not for you. You are not their cup of tea and they also are not yours

You can politely wave them as they go on their path while you move on your own path too. Never stay still on your path trying to wave at them because they are moving so you have to move on yours too.

Instead seek to share your path with your people, those people who love you, those people who recognize and appreciates your gifts, who appreciates who you are.

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Be who you are: You are not everyone's cup of tea and that is just fine!!!

I hope I was able to send a message with this post, thanks for reading

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Wow this is an amazing article😳😳,don't try to convince people to love you ,or what you do, thanks for sharing this 👏👏👏👍👍.

Thanks for finding my article amazing, I appreciate.

Be who you are: You are not everyone's cup of tea and that is just fine!!!

The earlier we realize that not everyone will like us, the happier we'll be.

You can go to the extreme for someone and they still will not like you, doesn't make them a bad person, it just means you're not for them either as friends or otherwise.

Lovely post dear

Good job..nice article

I guess we don’t get to choose who loves us, it’s not ours to do, we’re perfect in our own little way irrespective of our flaws. We can’t force the world to see us for who we are but rather they see us for who they want us to be😞.
Nice write up... it’s really uplifting