¡Hola, linda comunidad de Hive!💙| Hello, beautiful Hive community!💙
I don't know if it happens to everyone but there is a point in our lives where I can feel that everything happens so fast that you end up putting many things on the back burner, even important thoughts or worse, yourself. The mind has a lot of power and sometimes many of the things that affect us are because we have forgotten some great truths that help us react to uncomfortable comments. So today I will share with you 5 things you should never forget.
“Ya es hora de que te cases y tengas una familia para que seas feliz”, “Pasas todo el rato leyendo libros, nunca sales a fiestas”… y así como esos muchos son los comentarios que a lo largo de nuestra vida nos hacen, aunque se han visto casos que somos nosotros quienes solemos hacer ciertos comentarios incomodos, creo que con el tiempo hemos aprendido que no todos tenemos la misma definición de felicidad y es algo que debemos aprender a respetar.
"It's about time you got married and had a family so you can be happy", "You spend all your time reading books, you never go out to parties"... and many other comments like these are made to us throughout our lives, although we have seen cases where we are the ones who tend to make certain uncomfortable comments, I think that over time we have learned that not everyone has the same definition of happiness and it is something we must learn to respect.
Para mi la vida se trata de etapas y como diría mi mamá “Para todo hay tiempo”, en ocasiones nos sentimos tan cómodos con una etapa o con un ciclo que nos cuesta muchísimo dejarlo ir y cuando nos vemos obligados a dejarlo atrás nos preguntamos porque la vida es tan injusta sin saber que la vida es cambiante y que debemos avanzar, no quedarnos estancados en una etapa que ya debemos quemar.
For me life is about stages and as my mom would say "For everything there is time", sometimes we feel so comfortable with a stage or a cycle that we find it very hard to let it go and when we are forced to leave it behind we wonder why life is so unfair without knowing that life is changing and that we must move forward, not stay stuck in a stage that we should already burn.
Este punto es muy parecido con el primero y es que no sé por qué pero en la actualidad es muy común escuchar a las personas opinando de los demás, siempre comparando con los estándares que se creen correctos para el momento y creyendo que “eso es lo que todos deberían ser” NO, todos somos diferentes y aun así la opinión de los demás no es lo que realmente somos, porque una etiqueta no significa nada.
This point is very similar to the first one and I don't know why but nowadays it is very common to hear people giving their opinion of others, always comparing with the standards they think are correct for the moment and believing that "that's what everyone should be" NO, we are all different and even so the opinion of others is not what we really are, because a label means nothing.
En otras palabras: ¡hay lecciones que dejan cicatriz! Y no estoy hablando a nivel físico, sino emocional y mental. Momentos tan difíciles que incluso podrían significar un antes y un después en nuestra vida, situaciones que nos hicieron ver las cosas de manera distinta para finalmente dejarnos una enseñanza.
In other words: there are lessons that leave scars! And I'm not talking about physical, but emotional and mental. Moments so difficult that they could even mean a before and after in our lives, situations that made us see things differently to finally leave us with a lesson.
Así es amigos, yo soy de esas que cree en la intuición, las vibras, los sueños, TODO. Es que aunque suene muy loco, a veces hay señales dentro de ellos que nos permitirán en muchas ocasiones evitar situaciones desagradables, así que si algo dentro de ustedes les dice que algo esta mal CREAN EN USTEDES, busquen, indaguen y den con el problema o con aquello que les incomoda.
That's right friends, I am one of those who believe in intuition, vibes, dreams, EVERYTHING. Although it sounds crazy, sometimes there are signals within them that will allow us in many occasions to avoid unpleasant situations, so if something inside you tells you that something is wrong BELIEVE IN YOU, search, investigate and find the problem or what is bothering you.
These 5 tips I have learned over time, after many teachings and situations that I have lived, I hope you know how to take advantage of them as much as I do for your happiness. Pd: Never be satisfied, always be better for you and your future.
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I hope you liked my post!💙
