Hello beautiful community of Gems. I hope you are very well, I have spent days watching the iniciativs and tags that many users have been encouraged to perform the truth that I really like to participate in this, and today I decided to answer the questions made by @gabrielazamora10 in his Tag of Self-Esteem, the truth seemed very important to me this tag because nothing is more important than our self-esteem, which makes us feel good about ourselves. Here are my answers.
1)¿Te aceptas tal y como eres?
1- Do you accept yourself as you are?
Yes, I love myself as I am. I have changed for many years, but for me it is more important to love myself and to be well with myself, I think that if everything inside me is well, the world will be much better on the outside.
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2)¿Tienes confianza en ti mismo?
2- Do you have confidence in yourself?
To tell you the truth, yes, I usually have a lot of confidence in myself, but when it's a new experience, I question myself, am I going to do well? and in the end I end up encouraging myself, YES, YOU CAN! Hehe.
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3)¿Te importan las opiniones que los demás tengan de ti?
3- Do you care about the opinions that others have about you?
Not at all, that means nothing to me. I know who I am and the truth is I don't need to go around explaining why each of my actions, I think it's a waste of energy to talk to those who only know how to destroy with their words.
4)¿Mereces ser feliz?
Claro que sí, la felicidad la consigo en cada una de las cosas que hago y las cuales me gustan, sean grandes o pequeñas experiencias, lo importante es estar bien conmigo misma. La felicidad no es un ticket que se debe ganar, solo debemos encontrarla en aquello que nos llena de amor y pasión. Aunque no les voy a negar que yo ahorita fuera super feliz con un ticket de viaje al extranjero, como ir a Paris o a New York jajajajaja.
4- Do you deserve to be happy?
Of course I do, I get happiness in each of the things I do and which I like, whether they are big or small experiences, the important thing is to be well with myself. Happiness is not a ticket to be earned, we only have to find it in what fills us with love and passion. Although I will not deny that right now I would be super happy with a ticket to travel abroad, like going to Paris or New York hahahahahaha.
5)¿Te expresas con facilidad?
Anteriormente me costaba un poco expresarme, pero he ganado mucha confianza en mi y sí, suelo expresarme mucho mejor con las personas.
5- Do you express yourself easily?
Before, it was a little difficult for me to express myself, but I have gained a lot of confidence in myself and yes, I usually express myself much better with people.
6)¿Te alejarías de personas tóxicas?
Este ha sido mi hábito diario desde que inició la pandemia, jajajaja... Las personas cada vez estan mucho mas sensibles y por consiguiente se han vuelto muy tóxicas. Por eso mismo mi circulo de amigos se ha hecho más pequeño, cada vez soy más selectiva, y la verdad que no tolero si quiera escuchar algún mal comentario eso desgasta mi energía, y no solo eso si no aludir sus problemas en vez de buscarle solución a los mismos, porque no hay nada mas bonito que resolver nuestros propios problemas en casa, y no andar cargando a las personas de nuestro entorno con ellos, somos nosotros los que tenemos el poder de cambiar nuestra situación. Aunque comentarlo con un amigo es bueno, pero a veces eso se vuelve tan adictivo que media ciudad se entera del problema, y la verdad no le veo el sentido. Y si me alejaría muchísimo de esas personas, bueno, en realidad ya lo hice.
6- Would you stay away from toxic people?
This has been my daily habit since the pandemic started, hahahaha.... People are becoming more and more sensitive and therefore have become very toxic. That's why my circle of friends has become smaller, I am becoming more selective, and the truth is that I can't tolerate even listening to a bad comment that wastes my energy, and not only that but to allude to their problems instead of looking for a solution to them, because there is nothing nicer than solving our own problems at home, and not burdening the people around us with them, we are the ones who have the power to change our situation. Although talking about it with a friend is good, but sometimes it becomes so addictive that half the city finds out about the problem, and I really don't see the point. And if I would stay away from those people, well, actually I already did.
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7)¿Tu opinión es importante?
Eso va a depender del contexto de mi opinión, si algo depende de mi, pienso que si. Por el contrario, si solo es una opinión cooperativa pueda que no sea tan importante, depende de cada quien, asi como hay buenas opiniones tambien hay malas, solo depende de la situacion, y de las personas que deseen tomar en cuenta mi contexto.
7- Is your opinion important?
That will depend on the context of my opinion, if something depends on me, I think so. On the contrary, if it is only a cooperative opinion it may not be so important, it depends on each person, as well as there are good opinions there are also bad ones, it just depends on the situation, and on the people who want to take my context into account.
8)¿Te perdonarías por los errores del pasado?
Sí!. A decir verdad, esos errores fueron los que tuve que cometer para avanzar y aprender de ello lo bueno, viendo siempre el lado positivo, por que si no que sentido tendría?. Todas las personas necesitamos de experiencias y tambien cometer errores porque eso forma parte de nuestro crecimiento personal, y tambien nos fortalece en el ámbito social. Asi que si, me perdonaría mis errores, y agradezco muchísimo por ellos, ya que he aprendido mucho y por consiguiente hoy en dia soy una gran persona.
8- Will you forgive yourself for past mistakes?
Yes!. To tell you the truth, those mistakes were the ones I had to make in order to move forward and learn the good things from them, always looking at the positive side, otherwise what would be the point? All people need experiences and also to make mistakes because that is part of our personal growth, and also strengthens us in the social environment. So yes, I would forgive myself my mistakes, and I am very grateful for them, because I have learned a lot and therefore today I am a great person.
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9)¿Puedes decir que no?
Jajaja, me encanta esta pregunta. Siiiiii, yo puedo decir que no, pues no hay nada mas cómodo que decir lo que no te gusta, si no quiero asistir a un lugar donde no me siento cómoda digo que no, entre otras cosas, porque no hay nada mejor que expresar lo que sentimos, y si de verdad no deseas algo, como compartir tu tiempo con alguien porque sientes que no te valora, no eres bienvenida, no te gusta alguna comida, puedes decir que no, no es malo decir que no, eso es símbolo de amor, porque no siempre hay que decir si, quiérete mucho mas que decir si, a veces las personas no valoran ese si que das. Cumple y has lo que sientas mejor para ti, y no olvides ser empático, ámate, pero también es bueno decir no, cuando no nos quieren.
9- Can you say no?
Hahaha, I love this question. Yes, I can say no, because there is nothing more comfortable than saying what you don't like, if I don't want to go to a place where I don't feel comfortable I say no, among other things, because there is nothing better than expressing what we feel, and if you really don't want something, like sharing your time with someone because you feel they do not value you, you are not welcome, you do not like some food, you can say no, it is not bad to say no, that is a symbol of love, because you do not always have to say yes, you love yourself much more than saying yes, sometimes people do not value that yes you give. Do what you feel is best for you, and don't forget to be empathetic, love yourself, but it is also good to say no when you are not loved.
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10)¿Aceptas las críticas?
Si, las acepto cuando son críticas constructivas, que vienen de personas que de verdad yo siento que son me aprecian, hay otras personas que dan críticas no muy buenas y terminan humillandote, a esas, no les hago caso, pero es inevitable sentir dolor cuando viene de alguien importante para ti y que no te esperabas eso. Lo bueno es levantar la mirada y seguir adelante.
10- Do you accept criticism?
Yes, I accept them when they are constructive criticisms, that come from people that I really feel that they appreciate me, there are other people that give not very good criticisms and end up humiliating you, I don't pay attention to them, but it is inevitable to feel hurt when it comes from someone important to you and that you didn't expect that. The good thing is to look up and move on.
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Me encantó muchísimo responder todas estas preguntas, pienso que con ellas me conocen un poco más. Los saludo de todo corazón y espero que tengan un lindo viernes.
I love answering all these questions, I think they help me to get to know myself a little better. I greet you from the bottom of my heart and I hope you have a nice Friday.
See you in the next publication💫😊
By: @marcano94
