El sobrino mayor que apareció de repente... The older nephew who suddenly appeared...

in GEMS4 years ago

Somos una familia de 4 hermanos con poca diferencia de edad entre cada uno y yo soy la unica hembra del grupo. En un momento de nuestras vidas llegamos a estar los 4 estudiando en la universidad al mismo tiempo, en ciudades distintas y carreras diferentes cada uno.

Por cosas del destino, en ese tiempo mi hermano mayor y una novia quedaron embarazados, lejos de ser una tragedia para mi familia, este niño se convirtió en motivo de una gran alegría, sería el nieto mayor, hijo de quien en su momento fue el nieto mayor.

We are a family of 4 siblings with little difference in age between each other and I am the only female in the group. At one point in our lives, all four of us were studying in college at the same time, in different cities and in different careers.

By destiny, at that time my older brother and a girlfriend became pregnant, far from being a tragedy for my family, this child became a reason for great joy, he would be the oldest grandson, son of the one who was the oldest grandson at the time.

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Aqui esperabamos para entrar al espectaculo del Circo Tihany en Lechería

La relación de mi hermano con esta chica siempre tuvo sus tropiezos y no llegaron a posperar como pareja, por lo cual el acercamiento de la familia con nuestro querido Sebastián era un tormento. Aun con tantas restricciones, siempre me esforcé por estar cerca de mi sobrino, mas aún porque era el único familiar paterno que vivía cerca de él.

My brother's relationship with this girl always had its setbacks and did not come to fruition as a couple, so the family's rapprochement with our beloved Sebastian was a torment. Even with so many restrictions, I always made an effort to be close to my nephew, even more so because he was the only paternal relative living close to him.

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Se nota la conexión con mi esposo el dia de su cumpleaños

Era muy bonito escuchar su vocecita llamándome Tia Luz y para él era sumamente agradable irse a pasar los fines de semana conmigo, a tal punto que no quería que llegara el domingo para no tener que volver a su casa. No fue una tareas fácil lograr que me lo prestaran el fin de semana, sin embargo me fui ganando la confianza de su madre al punto de permitirme llevarmelo de viaje a otras ciudades.

Al no tener hijos, para mi era satisfactorio salir con mi sobrino cada vez que estaba conmigo a parques, cines, incluso a el circo. Junto a mi esposo lo llevamos a conocer muchos lugares, nos encantaba llevarlo a la playa.

Intenté siempre ser el vínculo de mi sobrino con mi hermano y el resto de la familia, con frecuencia lo traía a ver a los abuelos y muchas veces coincidía con la visita de su padre a la ciudad.

It was very nice to hear his little voice calling me Tia Luz and for him it was extremely pleasant to go and spend the weekends with me, to the point that he did not want me to come on Sunday so that he did not have to return home. It was not an easy task to get him to lend me the weekend, however I gained his mother's trust to the point of allowing me to take him on a trip to other cities.

Not having children, it was satisfying for me to go out with my nephew every time he was with me to parks, movie theaters, even the circus. Together with my husband we took him to many places, we loved taking him to the beach.

I always tried to be my nephew's link with my brother and the rest of the family, often bringing him to see his grandparents and many times coinciding with his father's visit to the city.

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Volviendo de Carúpano a Puerto La Cruz luego de un fin de semana familiar

Tengo muy lindos recuerdos de mi sobrino y en cierto modo me sentía satisfecha de que tuviera incluso mas confianza conmigo que con su papá cuando nos encontrabamos juntos. Definitivamente los niños sienten cuando son queridos y se idientifican con quienes les damos cariño.

Hoy este jovencito tiene 19 años y por cosas de la edad ya no es tan apegado a mi. Igual lo amo como que fuera mi hijo mayor...

I have very fond memories of my nephew and in a way I was satisfied that he had even more confidence in me than he did in his father when we were together. Children definitely feel when they are loved and identify with those we love.

Today this young man is 19 years old and because of things of this age he is not so attached to me anymore. I still love him as if he were my oldest son...

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