Hola mis queridos amigos lectores y emprendedores, espero que estén bien y realizando esos preparativos y organizándo esas agendas para ir retomando este nuevo año lleno de bendiciones . Espero que pasaran unas lindas fiestas.
Hablando de este tema tan interesante. Me di cuenta que una cosa es estar presente y otra cosa es hacerse sentir. Y siento que eso proviene de la autenticidad y de la luz que irradia cada persona.
Estaba hablando con mi hermano y una amiga, donde me estaban contando situaciones muy similares en donde me decían que sus parejas o amigos simplemente están más no se hacen sentir y para mi, eso es estar solo. Porque muchas veces decimos "yo voy a ir por lo menos para cumplir con mi presencia" pero cuando te das cuenta realmente no hiciste nada,porque no te hiciste notar. Y siento que cuando no te haces notar eres simplemente inexistente.
Creo que cuando estamos con una persona que nos está dando la confianza y nos cuenta como se siente, por lo que esta pasando, nos cuenta una situación difícil o cualquier cosa no es que sea necesario hablar pero tampoco es actuar como que si la otra persona no estuviera allí.
Y creo que la mayoría de las personas tienen una visión errónea de lo que es estar presente. Porque creen que estar presente es gastar, es dar detalles, es consentir, cuando realmente tiene que ver es con la presencia, la importancia, la atención e incluso el recordar y escuchar.
Creo que también proviene de la sensibilidad de cada persona. Muchas veces sentimos que por estar rodeados de personas estamos acompañados, y no es así, ya que desde mi perspectiva opino que podemos estar rodeados de miles de personas que dicen estar presentes e interesados por nosotros, pero. De esas personas solo uno se te acercó, solo uno te pregunto como estabas o te saludo.
Desde mi experiencia personal, siento que la vida me enseñó a no esperar nunca nada de alguien y no ser dependiente de otras personas, pero. Sin embargo por otro lado me enseñó a valorar la presencia de las personas que están en mi vida y de las que se hacen notar y me recuerdan que están allí sin necesidad de ser intensos o hablar todos los días.
Un claro ejemplo es mi vida es mi tía, que aunque no hablemos todos los días nos tenemos un cariño y una conexión qué traspasa fronteras y que a pesar de que ella esté lejos, eso no es un impedimento para las dos. Al hacer acto de presencia en la vida de la otra. Además de que por alguna razón siempre siento su presencia a pesar de no hablar todo los días y creo que de eso se trata esa magia.
English versión
Hello my dear readers and fellow entrepreneurs, I hope you are all well and busy with preparations and organizing your schedules to get back on track this new year. I hope you had a wonderful holiday season.
Speaking of this very interesting topic, I realized that being present is one thing, but making your presence felt is another. And I feel that this comes from authenticity and the light that each person radiates.
I was talking to my brother and a friend, and they were telling me about very similar situations where they said their partners or friends are simply there but don't make their presence felt, and for me, that's what being alone is. Because many times we say, "I'll at least go to be there," but when you realize it, you didn't really do anything because you didn't make yourself known. And I feel that when you don't make yourself known, you're simply nonexistent.
I think that when we're with someone who trusts us and tells us how they feel, what they're going through, shares a difficult situation, or anything else, it's not that we have to talk, but it's also not right to act as if the other person isn't there.
And I think most people have a misconception about what it means to be present. Because they think being present is about spending money, giving gifts, spoiling, when it really has to do with presence, importance, attention, and even remembering and listening.
I think it also stems from each person's sensitivity. Many times we feel that being surrounded by people means we have company, and that's not the case. From my perspective, I think we can be surrounded by thousands of people who say they are present and interested in us, but of those people, only one actually approached us, only one asked how we were, or even said hello.
From my personal experience, I feel that life has taught me never to expect anything from anyone and not to be dependent on others. However, on the other hand, it has also taught me to value the presence of the people in my life, those who make their presence known and remind me they're there without needing to be intense or talk every day.
A clear example of this is my aunt. Even though we don't talk every day, we have a deep affection and connection that transcends borders, and even though she's far away, that's not an obstacle for either of us. We both feel her presence in each other's lives. For some reason, I always feel her presence despite not speaking every day, and I think that's what that magic is all about.
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Your writing was full of emotion. Unfortunately, we live in a time when many people are alone but do not feel it. And sometimes they are even closer, but maybe a stranger's existence is brighter than him.
And being with someone, but feeling alone, is very bad. I thought that this situation would be felt more in our country considering the many problems that occur to people in the society. Every day begins with new news and lives are full of challenges and conflicts, and maybe it is one of the factors that is not without influence