Why things don't go as we think??

I was always an introvert and infact I'm still an introvert. I was more of a like person who don't like spending time with others and prefer working on my part of life alone. A part of this is good for an individual as it gives ownself time to do what we like to do . But here things are a bit different.

Recently I moved to my state capital which is about 200 km from my home town. Here i started living in a hostel where about 50 to 60 Students live. It's more of a like University hostel. As i was like minding my own business kind of person, spending almost a year transformed me in a tramendous way. Before coming here, i couldn't express my feeling in the way i wanted to express. A small part of this feeling is always left behind whenever i communicate with someone. Also during my early phase coming to the hostel this same problem showed up. Also i couldn't do my work properly when i observe someone looking at me. This made very much impact on my daily life . I think this a sort of like insecurity.....But slowly it started to get better. Now it's almost a year and looking at myself i can definitely tell that it transformed me a lot.

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Various thoughts keep coming to my mind about why this happens?? Everything depends on the attitude you show. For doing any kind of work , everyone must develop this attitude. Attitude can be of different types but here I'm talking about the healthy attitude . I figured it out that during my time before, i didn't have the attitude to talk to someone in a fluent way. That's why i always get fumbled in between. And i am not focused on my work but focused on the person standing next to me. This kind of events can cause a person from doing maximum of his potential. If you are good at something, you do it irrespective of what others say about the work or about you. But at the same time always reply them with a smile in your face. This attitude will take you to places if you master it.

Also in ou lifestyle, it plays a crucial role in shaping a human. We know our potential but we always get scared of the society. We think that if i couldn't do it what everyone will think of me. I don't know about the western culture but in India this type of society influence is common. INDIAN society are always intrested in knowing if someone has failed in examination or passed and will mock them if failed. This doesn't make sense at all LOL . But to any individual it may hamper his mental health. But if you have the positive attitude, there's no one that can stop from achieving what you want to achieve. Make your mind empty of these illusions and do whatever you like to do. There is always a way out .

This is all i wanted to say. THANKS for you value time.
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