Happy 65th to your Dad! Welcome back to Hive. I noticed you don't engage with other Hivers's content, that is the probably the main reason you aren't finding much support. I always research the comment history of new posters in the ASEAN Hive Community, and I noticed you haven't made a comment since April.
It is very hopeful that others will support your posts when you aren't also supporting other Hivers. Good luck and I hope you try some engagement on Hive. Hivers who only post in the ASEAN Hive Community and dont' engage eventually get muted.