In the past two days I've managed to get some good shots of my two daughters, and the technique of simply grabbing them with one hand and snapping the results seemed to work quite well.
Teenager On The Move 🚶♀️
The thumbnail shot was taken just after the above pic because I asked Srey-Yuu for a picture, she refused, and then I her showed my dadly strength and might by grabbing her wrist and taking a picture of my captive family member. Parental abuse or friendly shenanigans to maintain morale and keep the soldiers happy and laughing, you decide 😉.
After the captive shot. Srey-Yuu volunteered this shot of herself hanging some laundry in exchange for an hour of podcasts. She drives a tough bargain, but I gotta snap any pics she'll let me take because cooperative photos of Srey-Yuu are a rarity.
👷♀️ The Excavator & The Ninja 🥷
While Srey-Yuu was busy hanging laundry I saw Monkey-B and Ah Boom playing, and wondered what he'd do if he knew the camera was on him. As soon as he knew he was the target, he struck a ninja pose and Monkey-B kept digging dirt as if I wasn't even there. A few seconds after I took this pic I was walking away and saw his stick fly by my head, one of the many close calls that always seem to happen when he is around. He is cute, but wild and mostly undisciplined, and it's very tiresome to enforce a different code of conduct on our property that he is not used to at home.
Backup Plans Cancelled 🚫
Yesterday I was contacted by some potential guests about renting the cabin and staying on our land for a weekend homestay escape. They told us their reservations at a large and well-known Cardamom Mountains resort were cancelled by the staff because of a clerical error. We began preparing the cabin and cutting the grass near the cabin in order to allow a better view of the rapids and forest.
After a day of getting things ready for some short-notice guests, I got a message letting me know our place was way too far and they wouldn't be able to make it. The cancelled now became the cancellers, but it's fine, I understand. The bottom edge of the Cardamom Mountains is easily accessed by a highway running from Phnom Penh to Sihanoukville, two of the largest cities in Cambodia, and therefore tourism is well-developed in those parts.
None of the roads to the south of us are good enough to use for taxi transport because the mountains are too rugged, so you basically have to skirt the outer edges of the mountains and use a long remote highway to get to us. It's a double-edged sword, the thing that keeps this place beautiful also makes it very inaccessible.
Yo' Monkey-B ⛏️
Monkey-B always has several different faces for the camera, and when I asked her what she was doing, this was the face I was given, but not necessarily an answer. That is one cheeky daughter if you ask me, so I decided I'd snag her a few times throughout the day and see what photos I could produce.
The first time I went fishin' for a Monkey-B I caught the above face, slightly playful and a little threatening. I waited a few more minutes, then hid behind the door and snatched her arm as she was walking in the house, and this produced some better results.
I don't want to brag, but even though my kids think I am a total dork, it's clear I keep them happy and laughing as much as possible, and I'm usually such an active parent that I only find time to post after they've gone to bed, and that is the case on this night as I write this sentence at 12:04 am.
Tibetan Momo Chef At Work ☸️
Fast forward to early evening and I find that if I do the hard work of making the dough and the stuffing, the ladies are quite happy to prepare and fry the momos, so that is the current dumpling situation in this house. Tibetan momos are luckily legal food in Cambodia, but the Tibetan flag is outlawed due to Cambodia's coziness with China's CCP.
Intruder Campers ⛺
Earlier in the day some wealthy youngsters from Phnom Penh asked if they could park their cars on our land, and I allowed them, but also asked what their plans were. They said they wanted to camp at the river, and I asked if they'd like to rent our hammock hut or cabin, and they declined. I was a little pissed off because they'd just spend at least a hundred dollars on plastic-wrapped goods at our neighbor's house, but seemed intent on not spending any money on accommodation for the night.
We had already heard from our friendly non-enemy neighbors that they'd refused to pay $2.50 to pitch tents at their place, so I already knew they were trying to cheapskate us. I didn't ask for any parking fees, but would you believe when it got dark that we found they'd simply pitched tents behind our house and occupied the hammock hut without asking? Well, they did, and that's why Cambodian tourists from Phnom Penh are banned from our property, they've only ever caused problems. They were even kind enough to make a new firepit 4 meters from an existing firepit and use firewood I spent weeks collecting for their pleasure, and thanks for the pile of half-burnt trash.
The following morning we took pictures of the license plates on their Lexus and Toyota, and added them to the banned for life list. Meekness is not to be misunderstood for weakness, something the Cambodian culture has not grasped yet, and we spent the evening by the campfire with our trespassers in full view. From now on out I will say no thanks to rich entitled passerby tourists and instead focus on making bookings for people that actually want to come with a sense of respect. Luckily the fence will be going up in the next few weeks, and this will help to keep out trespassers because the rope boundary around our property isn't intimidating enough.
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Cute Srey-Yuu and Monkey-B hehe, I think they also enjoyed that snap of a pictures you took to them.
Anyways, those trespasser campers is just a total jerks. I bet they also didn't even say anything after using your things in your property. Like a little "hey thank you." I am wondering where they had the guts to even trespass there. They can just simply pay and enjoy the night, but, 🙅 aigoo
You nailed it, they didn't even say thanks or sorry, and didn't bother to clean up the firepit they created. The nerve of entitled rich Khmers from the capital has no end, and they wouldn't even be visiting this area if it wasn't for the casino near us on the border. Well, when the fence is up we'll be focusing on online bookings, and this will at least ensure the guests we have are people who have sought us out because of our location in nature.
Same reason a lot of locals aren't able to be tourists in their own country here in Suriname, because traveling to those beautiful untouched places are unaffordable.
Good you'll be placing a fence soon by the way. I was already going to say that here in Suriname, when visiting a public vacation spot parking is exclusive, so you'll also have to pay for that.
When thinking of inaccessibility, Suriname has to rank #1 of all the countries I've been too, you can even be on a paved road right next to a forest that is impenetrable. Here the forest is very dense, but not quite like Suriname, and the only problem is the remoteness, but plenty of people reach here riding only a 90cc moto. I can't wait to get the fence up and have some privacy.
Reading this, made me think of why the Maroons were able to prevent being recaptured by the colonizers or were at least making it way harder for the captors to reach them. Hasn't changed much since then. The population is also relatively small and focuses on the city life.
This is also the reason why when traveling more and more to the South campers go in groups and/or by bus and sometimes students when going on field trips to certain areas in the woods, they need to bring a security team with them. There was one instance during my university days, that a group of students on excursion were robbed, which is why the security measure.
Those robbing stories would never happen here, a lot of petty crime, probably much more here than in Suriname, but serious violent crimes like hold-ups and armed robberies are almost unheard of.
Ok. The POV hand holding skill is developing. Looking forward one day their back facing you and taking your camera angle towards some beautiful scene!
Super love that view after the ninja post!
I feel pretty insane how people of the Cambodia does understand how to respect others. I actually got angry reading that last part of the post
I did some of these shots with some inspiration from you, but it didn't turn out as planned. Even though they weren't the angles I was hoping for, the result was still good, but with added humor.
I think the social decay leftover from the genocide has never been fixed, and it creates a lot of division in society. The poor seem to venerate the rich even though most of them have achieved this status through corruption, and the monks further support them because they always make donations.
If you don't have a proper fence, people just assume it's public property that they're entitled to use (because if it was out of bounds, it would be fenced, right?)
This is why, the world over, all land gets enclosed and fenced eventually. If you are in Britain, a tall hedge gets planted for good measure too.
Our area, although not fenced in, is clearly occupied and private land. Even where the campers put their tents, there is a hut, and my wife and I have grown several plants and landscaped the area. Land disputes and land thievery are far too common in Cambodia, so the rich often feel it's not illegal to tread upon poor people's land, but if I waltzed into their luxury villa in the capital, the police would be called immediately. Even our nextdoor neighbor stole some land from her neighbor on the other side, building her bathroom and beer sign on his side of the property while he was out of town.
It's horrible when neighbours are like that.
If I were you, I'd put a fence up as soon as you can manage it, and plant a prickly hedge on your side of the fence.
Does Cambodia have the equivalent of holly? Or could you plant holly in Cambodia? It's a proper deterrant to intruders, but looks good.
I agree, our prickly hedge will be a row of tightly spaced cassava followed by bamboo. There is a thorny plant here called "touch me not," and it is covered in little thorns, and we already fight it every day, but it does have beautiful flowers.
I hate that my mind goes here but after a youth of watching M13 (Canadian youtube living in Taiwan) my mind first went to the question "Were they just trying to take advantage of a 'stupid foreigner?'"
Some of it surely that, but tourists from the capital behave this way regardless of my presence. This particular group had already been turned away from our neighbors for not wanting to pay to pitch tents on their land. They have the money to buy a Lexus, and few hundred bucks for gas, and even spent a hundred or so buying packaged goods from our other neighbor, but didn't have a couple bucks to pay for a place to sleep, priorities out of alignment.
Wow, that camper story. People out there keep surprising me.
Not that we Westerners are all that perfect.
I really enjoy those hand snagging pictures of your daughters. Great technique, very original.
It's a perfect storm, we have the best potential for ecotourism in the country, but the casino on the border causes all the traffic passing through to be rich entitled gamblers from the capital, and these folks only need a place to crash for the night, no interest in nature at all, they'll throw their trash over the edge of the balcony while admiring the view. The attitude seems to be that we poor ignorant mountain folk should be so lucky to rub shoulders with Lexus owners, but I have no desire to host them.
The hand snag technique was by accident, I was trying to recreate a scenario @davidke20 mentioned, the famous Instagram shots of the guy behind the woman with her hand leading him ahead. Our attempt at this turned into goofy shots of resistance.
The nerve of them, especially after saying they did not want to rent the hut! 😣
Did you consider running them off at that point?
I was so angry I couldn't even talk to them, but we took a pic of their licenses plates for future reference. We will have to make a wall of shame somewhere one day.
it would be beautiful to be there, sitting with a cup of coffee, a small flowing river and a panoramic view of the mountains, I'm still imagining being there.
It is a paradise in many ways, and the cold weather makes hot coffee and spicy food taste even better.
it really feels so perfect.
Give thanks my fellow curator 👊.
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