My Last Promise in 2025

Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. In this content i want to share about my fulfillment my promise to my son in 2025. I made promise that i will accompany him swimming before the new year. And i think my son need to know where i swim when i was young. This place have some memories for me whenever goes out dating with girlfriend when i was in high school, drinking alcohol secretly with my boys. And also when we i need to take care my friends who heavily drunk. Thats why it is good time to sharing my story to my son while playing in swimming pool.

My wife did not want to entering the swimming pool area, she just want to hang out in the cafetaria with her sister since it need to pay to entering the swimming pool area. And my wife cannot swimming. Thats why she did not want to entering swimming pool.
And yes, my wife already know that this cafetaria dish there is really delicious. I dont know why but the chef there is really great since i was in Highshool. Back then i felt that this cafe is really expensive. But, after i can generate money this cafe is kinda affordable especially with their taste.

When first came, my son is really happy that knowing I will accompany him on Swimming pool. I think i need to often asking him to place like this together to make more memories. Thats why he ask me to get his picture there. Right now my son is really narcist. He want to be pictured wherever the place is cool.

My son is really afraid drowning in water. I dont know when he got this trauma. I suspect it happen when he was a baby. But, i really dont remember at all. What can i do is teaching and make him get used to plunge his face into the water and learn not to panic when inside water. I know that my son is really timid person and always afraid with new things and need to be forced first before he can enjoying eventually. And i dont know how to train his brave when in water except make him plunge on purpose.
And yeah although he always mad at me whenever i took him into the deep pool since me myself need to plunge and try to floating and it will make my son face plunge into water and trying to gasp the air. But, i think this way is the better way to teach boys to be brave and no need to afraid or worry about being inside water. After hour or more he does not want to go to deep pool again. And in the end he just play in shallow water. Fortunately he wearing full swimming clothes. Meanwhile me, my body got sun burn especially on my back and shoulder.

So, in the end we are spending just sitting in shallow water and i am telling my story to him. And i dont know since when we are ended talking about our future house and he always nagging and asking my promise about building aquarium. I think he really want to have aquarium inside the house. And yeah i think it is not hard promise for me since my wife also want it and i love taking care aquascape too. And i kinda miss taking care aquascape too. Especially it will for our own house. So, with this the only promise that i need to do is building aquarium. And it will happened in next year (hopefully).