Garden update for March 2023: muddling along after loss....

in HiveGarden2 years ago

Dearest Hive Gardeners!

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I've been absent from the Hive Garden community, though in the garden intensively, due to a huge shock in losing Sergio, the man whose garden I use as my own...

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His death was unexpected, though he had suffered from extreme anxiety and high blood pressure for years. He had been additionally very concerned that his work had coerced him to take the jibjab (commonly referred to as 'vaccine', but which is nothing of the sort): he had an empty aiorta when they were trying to operate on him, which is consistent with the massive artery filling with the fleshy substance that is being created by those who've been jabbed...

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Suffice to say, we were all devastated; he leaves behind a distraught family and a young daughter. He was 53 years old.

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I had a complex relationship with Sergio when I first came to Italy and to Guardia Sanframondi; he was abusive in myriad ways, and I was vulnerable and neurotic in a new country... but over the years we found our common ground, and he was happy with my using the garden as my own, and keeping the jungle at bay...

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So being in the garden the past month or two was intense: memories spiralling upwards and outwards, lots of feeling, crying, letting go. Below is me and my partner Vittorio, making a brindisi to Sergio in the garden, after his beautiful very-well-attended funeral.

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Then, methodically and intuitively, finding a new relationship with the garden - in the mystery of Sergio not being an 'owner' of the land, and the possibility that his vision might live on...

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I've been very occupied now with helping the flowers proliferate: Sergio never had any flowers, apart from the chaotic jasmine hedge that I cut back aggressively in the autumn... Now there are tons of calendula/ marigolds, irises, rosemary and borage flowers, all of which I've planted, taken from wild places nearby - or just allowed to 'invade' as a gift from Gaia!

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It's a joy to see the bees and hoverflies go wild all over these blooms this month; life just celebrating life.

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The beds are benefiting from my having poured mulch onto them: all that Vittorio and I have trimmed from the olive trees in particular: it starts off kind of messy, but over time, the leaves all fall down in between the twigs, larger twigs or branches can be removed, and the layers settle into a protective layer over the soil evolving below. The gardens had VERY minimal soil across them, as they were reconstructed when Sergio first bought his house - it was literally rubble with no topsoil!

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I invested in a few small plants to add between the ones that was grown improvisedly: this is a self-seeded bietole or chard-like spinach, next to a planted lavender. And next to that, illustrated below, are two leeks/ oniony things which seemed to grow up by themselves - what a boon!

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Below is an example of the leafy parts of the epic-pruning-of-the-olives, being used to mulch some seed beds which are made out of old suitcases: the olive twigs make it all look a bit more civilised, between planting seasons. And the mulch layers keep the soil whole and hearty - they won't lose moisture or get dried out and leached of nutriment, if they're covered like this. We also cut down the big travi or beams - old wood from the house - which Sergio had used to block in areas of the garden - we've been opening it all up and simplifying the space hugely.

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The bietole/ chard continue to evolve and thrive: these were a delicate spinach that I planted last year - seeds donated in gift - but they seemed to develop into much stronger leaves the next year. Now they're more like the indigenous bietole plants.

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This is another wild-plant-visiting-the-garden: I think a type of Chenopodium - I step around it as I enter the garden.

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The flowering piante grasse or succulents, which Sergio planted: they are huge, and don't often flower - so it's beautiful to see them having bloomed two seasons in a row.

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My favourite herb! Coriander is notoriously hard to grow here - it faltered to begin with last spring, and limped through the summer, but then came into its own this WINTER, and has put out new leaves in the last couple of months: SUCH a joy, as I cannot find any coriander leaf bar in Rome - a little too far from me to merit travelling to augment my curries!

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A nice wee patch of all-together plants - marigold, borage, wall flowers, and some trefoglio or sorrel-y type of thing.

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The greens are flourishing after a rainy spell following a very very long dry spell.

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And a final flower for Sergio: a rose from my own mini street-garden-below-my-house. It is heavily perfumed and amazing to watch unfold over a couple of weeks since I picked it - opening ever so slowly and perfectly.

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... then this morning, I saw its petals dropped onto the red bedsheets, which I salvaged from Sergio's house...

Much love to you all, in everything that you are growing,

Blessings and hugs,

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I am sorry for the loss of your friend, Sergio... I am sure you are taking care of the garden with the best effort and love!

Thank you dear friend @mipiano 💜 I very much appreciate your good words and encouragement! Blessings on your work today 😇

This is a place of amazing beauty and your work makes it even better!

Isn't it, @unmuted ! It is a glorious space to pop down from my house to, and be immersed in, any time I need some Nature therapy.... Many thanks for your lovely response here. 💖

my site is also on a slope, but we have less elevation difference. and consequently, the view is not so grandiose!
Now I'm planning to terracing and landscaping, but someday, It will be as green as yours.

I wish you the best of luck in organizing your space for your convenience.
I will be happy to follow the news of your blog!

Ah, beautiful - I look forward to seeing your green garden develop, @unmuted !

 2 years ago  

What an intense time you've had. Kind regards and best wishes to you and Sergio's other loved ones.

Thank you, dear @ligayagardener - your wishes are very much appreciated. 😗 These times do indeed seem to get intenser and intenser.

 2 years ago  

It's a great time to build community!


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 2 years ago  

I'm sad as I read the intro but as as I look into the body it made me happy that the garden of your friend is still surviving and evolving.
Take a good care of it for it serves as a memory of your friend.

It is very nice to receive this supportive comment from you, dear @jhero22 - many thanks and a beautiful day to you 🌟

Your garden is whole universe unto itself! It seems like the life in your garden is the perfect expression of the love for your friend.

Thank you indeed, dear @tarotbyfergus 😍 -it's great to have such support from the community here, always.

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Thank you sincerely for this lovely support, dear @nutbox01 ! :-D Have a blessed day, friend 😀

You too my friend ❤️

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Sorry for the pain and vacuum that Sergio has left you. I think with death is inevitable in man's life as we must appreciate, but sometimes it's very painful when your Dearest pass out. Have my condolences, I never knew such kind of misfortune had happened in our Community. But, I assure you, you would never be bored once that you have big family like #Hivegarden and the whole Hive community that we all build relationships and engagement. Warmest greetings and my best wishes!

I really appreciate you lovely and thoughtful response here, dear @jude9 - it means a lot - and certainly, yes indeed, I am never bored in the Hive Garden! It is a great source of comfort to have friends here who offer their virtual hugs,,,, Have a beautiful day or night!