We humans are happy and quarrels happen more or less. However, there are some quarrels that need to be ended before they reach their peak. But the quarrel does not take an extreme form from the beginning. It gradually reaches an extreme form. Because it is seen that quarrels occur due to small talk about something. And this quarrel gradually creates hostility in the mind and creates a big quarrel. However, resolving a quarrel is not a weakness. It is the power of one's own qualities and talents.
Many people think that if a quarrel is stopped, it will be considered weakness. However, stopping a quarrel is a good deed. Because due to quarrels, people often get into big trouble. And any quarrel does not happen suddenly. It slowly creates hostility from the mind and becomes a big quarrel. And there are some people who talk about small things. Who is the center of this, but it slowly creates a quarrel. And those people think that if they can quarrel, everyone will say good things about them. Because quarreling is harmful to a family and society. Because when one or two people quarrel, gradually others support them and quarrel with them.
However, during a quarrel, there should be silence in the head of anger. Because if silence can be maintained when a quarrel occurs, then the quarrel will not happen again. Although many people cannot do this. Quarrels create jealousy in the mind in such a way that quarrels arise from there. Again, there are some people who try to start a quarrel by talking from the side. Their words are different. And when a quarrel starts, they try to increase the quarrel by supporting one side. And how a quarrel can ruin a relationship can be said even if it starts with a quarrel. Let's see, the family members quarreled over a trivial matter. They kept quarreling like this for a day or two.
Later, the relationship between the family was ruined due to this quarrel. It is seen again that due to such quarrels, family members do not talk to each other for years. It is also seen that there are many people around who do not talk to each other until death due to quarrels. However, when a quarrel starts, if one party or one person remains silent, then the quarrel does not go to an extreme form. The one who is happy during the quarrel is intelligent. Because quarrels never bring success. Due to quarrels, problems arise for the family as well as for the people around them. Because many times it is seen that if a husband and wife quarrel, even the relationship is ruined.
It is also seen that a small quarrel increases the distance between the family. If the quarrel is not stopped in time, even the relationship is ruined. Many times it is seen that quarrels occur in the midst of friendship. However, it is very easy to lose a friend. And it is very difficult to bring a friend back or to reconnect the relationship. Because a relationship can be destroyed in a quarrel. It can never be reconnected. And you have to have the mentality to build a good relationship without quarreling. Again, many times it is seen that there are some people who use anger. And because of angry words, the relationship is ruined. But at that time, it is necessary to understand that the relationship is something big. It is easy to ruin the relationship by using hot-headed rice badly. And it is very difficult to bring the relationship back to its previous form.
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