There is a saying in English: Make the Best of bad Situation. Make the most of the adverse situation. Adversity helps to nurture the natural talent in us. Unpleasant experiences can be put to good use for our own good. It depends on the attitude we adopt and the approach we follow
The great Abraham Lincoln has been a driving force and inspiration in many ways for contemporary narcissists and descendants. His life and vision are relevant to any age. He is mentioned many times in this passage. Sharpen him in public.
Edwin Stanton was one of those who criticized Yi and treated him unkindly. When Lincoln was promoted to president, he took his critic Stanton into the cabinet and appointed him to a very important financial position. After that, many expected Stanton to carry out his mission for silence. But he did not fail to raise criticism again, even in public.
How would Lincoln naturally react if the person he trusted and entrusted with such an important task continued to be his critic? In our society, even the slightest sound of criticism can only be viewed with intolerance. Introspection on the contrary It seeks to silence and glorify critics, without allowing for self-correction.
Those with such a view asked Lincoln: "Why does we protect and protect the murderer in a high position ...?" Lincoln responded with spontaneous enthusiasm. It is by quoting an incident from one's own experience.
Lincoln once visited an elderly dog farmer in the countryside. Polite farmer | Guest received. Heartily got down to the conversation. Lincoln then noticed a farmer's horse tied nearby. A big one that annoys the horses outside of it I saw the fly sitting. Thinking how much harm and harm it would do to the horse, Lincoln reached out his hand to chase it away and the farmer stopped him and said: "Don't do that, friend. That horsefly is the only thing keeping this old horse moving ''. No, do not do that. That fly is the only thing that makes this old horse move.
These words need to be heeded. When we say that the presence of a sick fly is what makes that horse useful, we need to think in relation to our lives. There are often situations that we do not like and that cause jealousy and frustration. They certainly have a place.
Such circumstances can cause us to change our course of life. It may help to awaken and put into practice the skills and talents that lie dormant in us. Those who have faced many crises in their lives will say so. They all had every benefit. It is enough to learn some of the essential realities of life and thereby make life more meaningful.
Clement Stone asks: "Then you have a problem, don't you?" That's good. Why? Continuous success over your problems is like climbing a ladder. With each success you grow in wisdom, understanding and experience.
Each time you face each problem with a creative mindset, you become more powerful, better and more successful.
Christ clearly said: You are in trouble in the world. Then he says. “I have conquered the world. It is the presence and conduct of God who has conquered the world that enables us to face adversity.
Author PT Forsyth says: “When we live and spend time with others, we know their problems and problems; But to solve them we need to live with God.