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Talking about forgiveness is likely to prevent some philosophy, very seriously linked to the thought of guilt, however, I come to put a new window, @holos-lotus type, to look at it in a sea of viabilities a little or very kind while appeasing the whip that any ideology in its myths and beliefs has awarded it and remains in our
subconscious.

Forgiveness or Sarcasm.

While on the one hand we come to be happy, it may be that this space of actions and then look at forgiveness as a necessary analgesic really provides us with a lot of calm, the good, the real one and not just a sedative or a placebo type patch whose condition only makes the pain less bearable, being that on the return we are twisted by remorse. But always incolumne, repeat I have already forgiven him/her!

I don't know if out of fashion or pride, I continually hear people say, I have already forgiven him/her, but there is no corporeal coherence of such remission, it seems more like a pardon, like that of the power in which you are still guilty only that the fulfillment of the penalty is no longer there. This forgiveness is not at all convincing from the point of view of language alone.

Falling on your knees, hating or smiling through your teeth.

To put body to forgiveness does not mean to fall on one's knees in front of someone, although that is the meaning, to show that everything is behind us. Forgiveness is a contrast in which the process always begins and ends with oneself, the perpetrator is only there to put to the test, some self-reaction, in defense of the mission to be happy. It does not mean then to let go but to do some personal work, whose process involves some interesting practices, overcoming any discomfort, resentment, anger, hatred or hypocrisy.

I have been in situations in which it is natural for me to put my repertoire of anger and resentment at the service, maybe it is also a matter of fear, which implies that anger to protect oneself from the attacker. And I have also been in situations in which I totally ignore what is happening around me, because in my belief that I am acting well for me, for the other it is not and I realize it much later. I just understand that I can't do anything about it, because everyone does what they do from where they can do it.

Forgiveness as an investment

I propose a mandatory exercise of great courage and peace:
Let's start by deserving peace, that freedom in which you are no longer in rancor, reclaiming something that is outside. Nobody did anything to us. Let's start with ourselves:

I allowed you to come into my life and do what hurts me today.

Because pain is not sudden, pain has a process, it does not hurt all of a sudden, something was happening that made this damage appear. So --- where were you at that moment? No blame please, is to realize that the value of that learning is an opportunity not to repeat a situation like that.

Alert!!! When there is no more recrimination, that's it, you are liberated.

So it is not about forgiving others, it is about freeing yourself.
The guilt is gone, let's start forgiving ourselves. Stop being a victim, let go of this model of poverty, the blame is not outside. It is your responsibility.

Dear @holos I leave you, the best investment, for this Holy Week day of the wonderful forgiveness, to be in peace. Let us be free.