Mirandome a través de otros ..

Hello Holos and lotus friends, I hope you are doing well.... How much harm do we do to ourselves through others or situations?

We spend a lot of time in victim mode, we are always thinking that so and so does such and such a thing to us, so and so hurts me, among other situations in which the me is the protagonist, where we are the poor person to whom things are done.

To get out of the victim mode, sometimes it is not easy, it is to uproot beliefs, which we must be willing to abandon, and once you are willing to do that, to confront those beliefs, then you begin to remove the veil from your eyes, and you begin to remove the weight of victimhood that you have imposed on yourself for years, this in my experience is the beginning of personal growth.

This is not something that you take off like a snap of your fingers, this is something that you eliminate little by little, there are things that are easier than others to realize, because we are always in constant interaction with things that move us, sometimes you have to see it several times until you finally realize it and that is where you can begin to remove all those things that you carry inside you.

Many situations that happen to us that move us emotionally is because some information that you have as true about you, resonates with you, then he does not attend me, does not answer me, does not invite me, does not see me, does not speak to me badly, among many others, important or not, cause you a whole internal emotional movement.

If you are a little awake, sometimes I think that there are things that we are not ready to see, but in any case if you are a little awake, and you realize and you can stop for a moment and say to yourself, but because I feel this way about this situation, you will probably realize that all the time you have been doing things to yourself, through others, who come to show you something that you internally believe about yourself and you are doing, others are only a reflection, then that speech where the other does something to you changes.

What have you stopped doing for you and to you, that the other with his attitude is reflecting you? People are a mirror and they only show you what you are, or they say yes to what you believe about yourself.

Today I lived a similar situation, where I saw an attitude in a person to whom I asked for information and I felt ignored, I was like that for a long time, until I realized that I have been days, not responding to a request of mine to me, to fix my space for a little order, I have days seeing situations that I do not like and I have not put them in check, for me it was an obvious call that the issue is not that the other person has not attended, my request, but that I myself have not attended my own.

If I leave myself for later, if I do not attend myself, if I do not pay attention to myself, who else will do it, it is not necessary to say that once I became conscious of this, because they answered my message, it was not a coincidence, it was the deepest part of me telling me: Heyy do what we need to do so much, and well I started.

It is important to realize that so much of what is on the outside, is a way of telling us, look at yourself, look inside and take care of your business.

I hope you like this post, thanks for your support. 💕