Cuando la necesidad se convierte en oportunidad ✨

When necessity becomes opportunity, time to learn. Four months ago I decided to take a challenge and get out of my comfort zone, I went to face that Edioretza, that's what I call myself, that I didn't know lived in me. I have always been independent, but you really don't know how independent you are until you live alone.

I had never cooked, when there used to be that conversation between friends, I always said I don't know how to cook and someone always came out to give opinions like “you are going to die of hunger” “a woman has to know how to cook” “how is it possible that you don't know how to cook” that among others, well although on the outside I didn't stop it as one says, inside there was that little thing, until a new friend arrived who said that if a woman doesn't cook it was okay, because not all were born for that and they had other priorities and that they could delegate it. With that I got the strength haha, and I said to myself it's not that it's not important but the truth is that cooking doesn't call my attention.

But when I had to be alone with my son that time, I had to do it if or if, because one only eats whatever, but with children the thing changes, that task has always been done by my mom, and although I could take the easy way of going to eat at my mom's, I took that challenge for me as what was a great learning.

And simply the first day I got to cook, I did it as a challenge and passed the test, and I must say that I inherited my mom's seasoning. It is an art to add seasoning in the right way, so that it is not salty, obviously some of them were salty, others with little salt, but it is part of the learning process, the cooking time is another, however as the days went by I was improving, every time I made a new meal, I felt proud of myself, and I was delighted.

With all this, what I want to exemplify, is that we do not know what we are capable of until we do it, either because there is no other way or because we risk, no matter what motivated it, the important thing is to do it, maybe this example does not fit you much, maybe it is too easy, but the point is that you do what you think you can not, trust more in yourself and in your abilities.

The worst thing that can happen if you try is not to achieve the goal, many will call it failure, however, I call it learning, if you do not try you would not have learned, I think the worst thing that can happen to a person is to stay in the: and if you had done it, that if it is a failure.

You have to have determination, even with fear, but if you are firm in the decision that you achieve something you do it, that was what accompanied me, determination, because of course I wondered how I was going to do, but I threw myself into the adventure and managed to cook, that among other things, but in this post, I wanted to talk about that “anguish” that haunted me for years, even useless I was called once for not knowing how to cook.

We are capable of achieving whatever we set our minds to, as long as we have the desire, the will, the determination and of course, believe in ourselves, we can achieve whatever we want. As many people say, the sky is the limit.

Thank you very much for joining me and reading my post. Blessings...