Greetings friends of the @holos-lotus community, welcome to another installment of the Esa Vida Nuestra initiative, this time with a topic to which we can give a humorous spin, or not, we are going to enjoy the publications. Each one will give you the focus you want, as long as you stay within the theme.

Recently, our friend @damarisvibra shared her initiative where we try to interpret ourselves based on the vision that others have of us, and we were able to see the theory of the mirror self.

At this moment I would like us to pay attention to those peculiarities that make us different, that others do not imagine we could have, because they are not visible. Let's talk about something that we wouldn't do for anything in the world, even though many people do it because "That's not me" or "That's not me."

I'm going to leave you a song by Mari Trini, (not very new), that I thought was appropriate to give the title to this initiative. Please listen to it while you read.

I'll tell you about myself: I didn't learn to swim, but I'm not opposed to it, I think that if I had the opportunity to take classes, I would do it with great pleasure, but I'm not the one who knows how to swim. I have never ridden a motorcycle, but in this case I know that I don't want to do it, the motorcycle taxi drivers stop at the bus stops, waiting for me to use that service and I kindly decline the invitation, I understand that if an emergency arises, I may I would do it, I'm really afraid of it, but because of not saying "I won't drink that water", I leave that space for doubt.

Many years ago I went up an escalator in the subway in Caracas, it was a very high staircase, there were a lot of people and noise, I had a slight mishap, I stepped wrong, I felt like I was going to fall: that scare has meant that I could never get on the escalator again. One, every time I arrive at a place where there are these types of stairs, I immediately locate the normal ones to go up there. My family knows that and they don't force me, but sometimes I walk with other people who encourage me but when I get to the edge of them, a strange sensation takes over me and paralyzes me: I don't go up escalators, that's not me. I. I don't like roller coasters either.

I'm not one of those who applauds and shouts at a show, even if everyone does it, even if whoever is singing is my idol, I don't get infected by that general euphoria, I like to watch the presentation calmly and experience my own emotions. It also bothers me when people clap their hands while a harp is playing, for example, or there is a joropo dance. It seems to me that the enjoyment of the sound of the instruments or the movements is lost (I may be visual).

I'm not the one who gets excited about a wedding party, quinceanera, or similar, in general all the protocol that structured meetings have annoys me, I feel like I could be doing something else and not attending a ritual, that's not me.

_{Image created with the Al avatar Jigsaw application, for entertainment purposes, according to the meaning of this post.}

I am not the one who is not afraid of insects and ignores them: I bite my tongue when I have a wasp nearby, one time I was stung by one and it was very painful, someone told me that if you bite your tongue, (laughs) I don't know how true it is; but I always do it.
I'm terrified of cockroaches, I'm not the one who's going to go out and hit them with a broom, the fear that they'll fly on me and make me lose my mind is beyond my understanding. This would deserve a publication of five hundred words, it is an issue without a solution, I can't stand them, I fear them and that's it.

The important thing about all this is that in This Life of Ours, each of us will be as we are, and we will try to change what we want and doing so will bring us well-being, but nothing happens if you are different, if you are not as the majority prefers. , that's ok.

How can you participate?

• Tell us anecdotes or experiences that show your differences or particularities, those that almost no one knows and that when seeing an everyday fact that you do not share allow you to say "that's not me" or "that's not me."

• Write a post with this month's theme in our @holos-lotus Community. Posts must be published directly in the Community, crossposting is not allowed.

• Please don't forget to leave the link in the comments box, that's how I'm guided to keep track of the participations.

• The publication must have more than 500 words in each language, the content must be original and respectful of copyright, for which we ask you to be careful pointing out the sources of the images and resources you use to support your publication.

• Invite at least two Hivers to join this challenge.

• We like to create a Community, and that is why we invite you to comment on at least 3 other posts from users participating in the initiative.

• Support this post if you like it and reblog it so that more users can join the Contest.

• Use the hashtag #bienestar among the first tags

• You can also use among your tags those of some of our allies in this initiative: #hispapro, #r2cornell, #ecency.

• You can also write your post from #ecency to add points.

Remember that you can help the growth of our Community by making us beneficiaries of a small % of the rewards from your post. The resources obtained will be reinvested in the activities we carry out in our Community. We thank you in advance for your support.

This initiative will be valid from 05/07/2024 to 05/20/2024.

Acknowledgments

On this occasion we are sponsored by Ecency and we will be distributing 90 Ecency points for the most outstanding publications.

We will count on @charjaim to select the winning posts.

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Thank you for your kind reading.

My content is original.
Images from Pixabay, edited in Canva.
I have used Google translator.