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RE: 5 unexpected ways to cope with rejection

in NeedleWorkMonday3 years ago

I am very impressed and inspired with how you ended up coping with all this. I know it took a couple of days to mope (which is a natural reaction for many of us) but look at how you were able to get through this. Sometimes we can have big or deeper visions than what others are ready for. As already stated it could just be that their idea of the fair was in a different direction than what you had to share this time.

I was rejected by a website when trying to sell my photography works. It was a couple of years back when I felt my photography had improved and could maybe make a few bucks from my shots. They told me to come back and try again once I had gotten more experience and exposure :(

I was down about it for a few days and didn’t want to do photography for awhile (you’re not the only one who’s mature 😆😜). However, I didn’t let it stop me…two years later I am starting my own family photography business with a handful of clients and no need to get “hired” for anyone’s website. It feels so much better to be working for myself being able to be the artist I want to be without any limits or going by someone else’s rules. Being rejected actually made me work harder to prove to myself my work IS worth it! I began spending more time practicing and studying my art to master it a little more each day. 🙂

Honestly, you are one of the bravest needle artist I know. Remember back then when I was supposed to start an Etsy account? I realized this year the main reason why I held back…it was from being scared of rejection. I didn’t want to receive anything back in the mail from dissatisfied customers. It was a terrifying thought so I backed out.

I love the shawl you made for your mother, those pixelated colors are so bright and cheery.

Continue creating, enjoying, doing it yourself, inspiring, and being you! Good for you for getting back at it and seeing where your ideas go from there. 💓

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 3 years ago  

Yep, I was very good at the self-pity for some days 🤣 And as I already saw some of the artworks which were accepted, I must say you are right, they really wanted something different. I guess they wanted more beauty than problematic :-DDD (I fear I am not good in beauty with art).
And thank you so much for sharing your photo-business journey: while looking at your post I often thought you have simply wonderful photos, and seldom thought deeper, that it may also be a journey for you. Therefore I am even more excited, that this has grown in a real business (again: your photos are amazing) and you were not deterred by this unhelpful criticism from the website (I hate it when you do not have a chance to understand the criticism/feedback so that one can do better next time).
And one aspect you mentioned I also find very important and that is that you (and me too) have clear ideas of what to express artistically. This can get watered down very fast when one is hired (or bound to a fixed gallery). Nevertheless, there is the dilemma of how to make any money of the artworks (I mean my weird installations :-DD) besides from scholarships, because these are like a lottery win. Its something I ponder or work around for years now. I fear I have to think more…

By the way: I always wondered how sold knitted items look from the inside :-DDD If they sew in the yarn-ends more professional than me or if they are only much more courages to accept that handmade does not look like machine made.

Thank you so much for taking time to liften me up <3<3<3

I fear I am not good in beauty with art

Well I hope you don't try to change what you're good at and comfortable with expressing. Let's hope there will be a time and exhibit that welcomes all you have to offer. 😉

Thanks so much for the compliment of my photos. It was a hurtful rejection but it steered me in the right direction of improvement. ☺️

It’s funny you say that because I’ve seen professional knitted garments sold in the store and thought to myself “I guess if the item looks this good people don’t care much about the hanging ends.” I was surprised that the ends weren’t sewed. I guess we as the artist pay more attention to it but the consumer just sees the full product and doesn’t look at the tiny details that help hold the item together lol. I notice every loose string that’s out of place. 😅

Of course my dear, anytime ~ 💓