Hmm, this is deep. I think all of these are still down to what we consider important as individual human beings. To some people, their family is the reason why they could enter any trouble and not mind if that is their end. I also felt that it is good to have a course that someone can die for. If there is nothing pushing us to thrive towards meaningful life, then life is useless anyway. A child could feel like he has to make it in life for his parents. Husband might feel like he owns his family everything, even if it means he would have to enter trouble.
It is important to know that it is only those who have nothing to lose that often throw their life away unnecessarily. This is just my opinion, though.
Also, our experience shaped us in how we relate with people around us. Someone whose heart is broken might not trust people easily or find it difficult to relate with new relationships.
A lot of times, too, we avoid things because they seem like too much trouble, but maybe the things that feel hard are actually the ones that make life more meaningful. Relationships, personal growth, and even small daily choices; they all require effort, but maybe that’s the point.
I wonder how many people really have clarity on what they value in life. Do you think the average person has sat down and spent real time and energy to work it out?