and vote "I don't give a crap" :D.

Is it douchey? :D

We just have to be careful not to be pretentious ivy-league fuckers and think our opinions are the best

Yep. Good discussion isn't about that kind of crap (unless actually interested in it). I think some just discuss topics because they think they are meant to. It is like watching the news to stay informed about the world - the wrong way and wrong reasoning.