Dating now is so difficult. Most of the early stages happen in front of screen, with all their filters and perfect pictures. That is why their imagination is shattered once they meet. They can see the faults and problems of the other person, and not like the perfect being they envisioned. I think friend referrals in dating have a better shot of being successful. The friend knows both of you and can see how you can work together. The friend won't overhype and just say to meet and try it out.