What I’ve learned about forgiveness

Forgiveness is the key to living peacefully. I have accepted the fact that nobody is perfect, and we have to keep on trying to comfort ourselves and everyone around us, regardless of what's wrong. Although some wrongs might seem so unforgivable and unforgiving to let go, the longer we hold onto the past and hurt the more they hurt us of keeps on bothering us, so it's either we forgive or let go by distancing ourselves completely.

Forgiveness does not always mean reconciliation, letting go of the hurt and past by not reacting to the bad things or negative things that are around us. Life is a good teacher and trust me, so far so good, I have learnt a lot of experience from life. I remember friend has once stolen my phone and even denied it in front of everyone till date I have not collected that phone back she keeps on saying it wasn't her but my friends saw her, this kind of situations is hard to forgive but the best thing I can do is not to react aggressively but let Go and let Nature judge this kind situation, karma always has a way of reacting to situation like this, this lady was later expelled from University fro some reasons.

Sometimes the best way to react to pain or any issue we might be facing is silence and to observe more than speak. Observing really teaches a lot of things, we should observe more than react, especially in our painful or hard situations.

Sometimes it's hard to forgive at once, so in some situations forgiveness can seem the point where we need to get. One thing that motivates me is that I am focused on becoming a billionaire and billionaire don't focus on little problem or works with emotions, yes they have emotion but you don't allow it get over you, you make Decisions even though they consist of loss of something, reading so many books tells me not to focus on little problems but to solve them and things of the bigger pictures around that problem that needs to be solved, which is why I always tell me to learn to forgive people even though they are wrong not because they deserve the forgiveness from us but because we need our mind to be fully concentrated on the bigger goals we tend to focus on and achieve, without this it might seem so difficult, imagine I emply people to work with me, and probably there is an issue or problem, I will try to solve this issue and bring a solution to it not respond to it with my emotions, if it require me to relieve the person of that position I don't mind but if the person has value in that position I will try to make ammend to that situations that moment.

We should learn to accept and forgive people, not everything or experience or even situations is perfect, it's a process thing which we must be careful of how we respond to our moods and feelings anytime anywhere.