I am constantly trying to convince myself these days that it is ok to slow down and "Smell the Roses" 🌹
"Lower my standards". Just writing that makes me wrinkle my nose. But it needs to be done. Time for this trucker to find a downslope and just coast a little.
Maybe you should too. Let's find a trail to hike that is platue. Not so steep. Not making the summit needs to be ok. If we are going to enjoy the view from where we are...
Reducing one's expectations one has on themselves can be a good way to reduce stress issues, but it's not always easy for people like us I guess. Not keeping your wheels rolling might seem a good idea, a break, a day off and all...but that's doesn't pay bills and there's the pressure, right back on again. I think fundamental changes are required sometimes, to life and mindset.
I've always been a achiever , which doesn't mean I've always achieved at the level I wish to, just that I work hard, lean into things and seek positive results in life, relationships and professionally...You get that of course, you do the same.