“It isn’t about telling people what to do, it’s about helping them do what they think they might not be able to do “. ——— Tarazkp
I never knew I had certain potentials until someone helped bring them out in me. Not many can do that though. But for those that know it like you said, bit by bit they can make the difference.
I remember when I was 20 or so, I was at the gym, bench pressing about 50 kilos. I was very sick and very skinny. This big guy came over to me and asked if he could spot me, and I said sure. He then said I could do more, took it to 60, and then encouraged me to go to 80 - that was the first time I benched 100 kilos.