No matter what, this July ...

Approval and criticism is the key to the famous phrase "no matter what".

Believing in myself is the closest thing to the beauty of life.

Putting myself to work on what I believe in without letting others constantly approve of me or criticize us is the most challenging task to leave my old version of me behind. Because what each of us knows how to do, deserves a mission...

This is something like when you have to turn the tortilla upside down, although burned tortillas are also learned (this is not a comment, it's a projection) from permanent impermanence.

Today I want to be more human.

That's where the work starts, in resizing the help when I want to stop and I think I've reached the exit, of whatever.

Definitely, many times seeing clearly is difficult because life changes US and that at least for me is a great start. Despite the digital noise, where many times the mind, my ideas are lost to me, looking for approval, peace fades away, and he shakes that produces the brightness of my computer screen, what I get are absent looks, exhausted hearts, and impatient souls.

I have thought about moving away, disconnecting, breathing, leaving the virtual world for a while, to return to the simple of a call, maybe a coffee with the sincere table conversation, the present moment, walking slowly, more emotional security, accompanying me with the silence that whispers to me, be calm, without notifications, and that false dopamine of social networks and where to the end, I can not publish what I want, because of their pressure, and this is a reality.

I wish for peace, less comparisons, more self-love, more kindness, less anxiety for fear of the future and more wise time to educate.

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Recently in much of the world we could enjoy the summer solstice, the shortest night with its longest day, that day the sky was as blue as the sea, the sun was bright, and everything happened on a warm day in this land that saw me born, I walked with my husband next to it, it was a day of real beauty and easy to see.

At least that day I disconnected a little to reconnect with my self, this day I decided to prioritize that my well-being should flow with the changes, be more faithful to me, because my intuition tells me that the world is not.

After one knows what one deserves one does not settle for less and to this that I write one has to put action and not only to know it, but to exercise it. I don't expect anything from anyone, so all the best from me will only be for those who really need me. That what I arrive and accept is within my healthy limits, that it nourishes me, that it drives me... and knowing that I expect nothing less from that.

And no matter what happens, it's never too late to learn it.

It's like that! Self-esteem will continue to be valid in this and in the next generations. The best investment we can make is in our self-love. From there on, we live with much better favorable conditions!

Janice.