Enough about artificial intelligence...

in Reflections3 months ago




Things don't always happen the way we want, but the attitude we take towards it is our own thing. I think we have the power to decide how to deal with what affects us.

The question to me is: How do we grow? It will be...! That we do it by hook or by crook? 🤔

Look, I am totally convinced that there is a masterful formula for personal growth and for developing greater emotional intelligence and resilience.

Mine, I mean my magic formula...

It is essential to understand that walking away is not an act of cowardice, it is a cathedral-sized truth: it is pure courage.

When you withdraw from what destroys us, we are not running away, we are returning to oneself. When we decide to let go of what leads us to the abyss, we are choosing to be true to ourselves.

Because, in my view of things, no one deserves the price of your inner peace or the power to become someone you don't recognize.

And since things don't always happen the way we want them to, well, the attitude we take to it is our own thing. We all have the power to decide how to deal with what affects us.

And many times, personally, what do I do? Well, I observe, listen, analyze and leave, I walk away in silence. Not everyone deserves my time and my argument. You have to be smart and quietly withdraw.

Without a doubt, whenever I break down my fears, my courage increases when I apply courage, in overcoming my mental challenges.

When we challenge the traditional mindset about fear we are taking the first step to achieve everything we set our mind to.

So let's break down those fears to go motivated to action, connecting with the approach that we have a "winning mentality".

Enough of artificial intelligence... and a giant YES to our emotional intelligence :

That human ability to recognize, regulate and understand emotions, both in ourselves and in others. As well as our affective responsibility to recognize and assume that our actions cause emotions in the people with whom we interact.

It is about being aware of the implications of the links between people, whatever the type of relationship, in order to avoid emotional damage.

Sometimes we are down, sometimes we are up, sometimes we have to give and sometimes we have to receive... Let's take advantage of the good times without forgetting that everything happens and nothing is permanent.

Sometimes we have hope and things don't happen. It's not important. If they are not given, let's hope for something better. Never ask yourself, what do I do if things are not given to me? Rather, ask yourself: What will I do when things are given to me? And if you don't know what to do, just ask for help.

Many of those who have called me crazy, I'm sure they dream of having my courage and the most important thing in life, begins and ends with an emotion, especially the most beautiful emotion that only our emotional intelligence can feel... that we have loved.

That's what it's all about.

Janitze 🦋


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