It's a haven, a place we can be our true selves without prying eyes or judgemental perceptions and is somewhere we should abe able to feel comfortable. For my that can be ruined if others are there, like they're invading my personal space. People come over now and then, but I try to limit it and am very selective as I said above.

I have a cat also, Cleo, and she's a little frightened of people other than my partner and I and so we take her into consideration also and so we have few people here.

Thanks for commenting, I appreciate. It.