No underpants! (Ok, I do that too sometimes.) 😁
Seriously though, I think it's acceptable to be selective with people including those we allow into our homes; especially those people. People seem to want to play their lives out in public; a cry for validation, relevance or attention? I'm not sure, but keeping things private is a better way to go and certainly one's home...an intimate place, should be reserved for those who deserve it.
I agree with you 💯