Hard truths

🌞There are truths in life that are hard to accept because they are hard, difficult and even cruel, but we have to open our minds and understand that there are certain things in life that are the way they are and we cannot change them. And sometimes, when we accept them, our lives start to improve and flow, and it seems that everything starts to become easier. And what is changing is not life, what we are changing is us: our attitude towards that reality.

🌞As failure, no matter how much we deny it, is inevitable in this life. No one is born learned, we all start from scratch and learn throughout our lives. And in order to learn, we have to make mistakes, we have to make mistakes and fail. In order to learn, because life, whether we like it or not, is a constant trial and error. We try, we fail, we make mistakes and we learn. And we keep trying, because from every mistake and failure we make, there is learning, experience and knowledge.

🌞The life of each one of us can be better or worse, it all depends on our attitude. Because if we fall down in the face of any problem, we will always be sad, complaining, and we will always do badly. On the other hand, if we are optimistic and positive, if we always see the glass half full, we will be happier than other people. Because in the midst of the problems that may arise, we see the good things. Believe me, I have experienced it. Not everything that seems so bad is. So, I know that all the problems and failures that I experience, I know that they are just a passing storm, and I live with illusion and enthusiasm. I always hope for the best.

🌞We alone are responsible for our lives, no one else is responsible for what happens to us, no one else is responsible for our failures, our failures and mistakes. If we do not achieve anything in our life, we are the ones responsible. Why I say this, because I usually hear many people who say: "I didn't do this because of my parents" or "because I had children at an early age", and they seem like silly excuses. Because if we have our five senses well and we are intellectually regular, we should not blame anyone, because everyone is responsible for his life and his actions, for his successes and failures.

🌞Not everyone can like us. There will be people who like us and there will be other people who dislike us without doing anything to them, and that is something natural that we must accept. There are people who like us and people who won't like us, no matter what we do. So let's not spend our lives trying to please others just to fit in with a group. Let's not try to please others, because we can't please everybody, and that's something we have to accept and live with happily.

🌞Being in love is not enough for a relationship to work, because sometimes we can love that person very much, however, that relationship can end because love cannot do everything. There are many more conditions that are needed for our relationship to be successful and lasting, and that is why many times relationships end, loving people because in other aspects they are incompatible.

🌞Dreams are not always fulfilled, goals are not always achieved. We don't set goals, we fight for them and we put all our efforts into them, but sometimes we don't achieve them. This is something I have accepted and we all must accept. Instead of staying frustrated and bitter for the rest of our lives, let's look for other dreams. If one goal is not achieved, let's look for another one. We must learn to let go of those dreams because maybe they were not meant for us. Let's focus our attention on other dreams and move towards them, because we will surely achieve some of those dreams or goals.