Ironically, even with my slipping into isolation again, I do not feel lonely. I do have my wife and youngest son living with me. I speak to my oldest son, older brother, and a cousin regularly. However, for whatever reason I manage to wall myself off from the people for the most part other than that. I do not think it is time for a sex toy, but I would love to get fucked, it has been a bit.
Loneliness might not be about being alone, but about not having purpose, or feeling like what is done. doesn't matter. We don't need to be surrounded by a lot of people to feel useful in the world.
Should I tell you to go get fucked ? :D
Another thread for me to chase down tonight.
No need to tell me that.
As someone who's been using sex toys for years, I can confidently say that this personal experience helps me battle loneliness, as well as any worries of abandonment or anxiety. Sometimes I even prefer it to my partner becuase I don't want her to feel like I'm using her body to vent my frustrations. I got my fleshlightshere, got her some clitoral stimulation vibrators, so we are together but by ourselves. As for two people who are working on their traumas right now and use sexuality as a canvas to paint our troubles, it is sincerely a life line for us.