Weekly Reflections #4 ✨

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Hi there folks! Again, it's time to make some space for some profound reflections related to what I've been able to realize through the week. Hope some of them make sense to you. Enjoy! 😁

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Loneliness is probably the most safe way to get into healthy relationships

This is something my intuition said to me, so don't blame me if it doesn't work for everybody. I think is almost crazy how after I decided I wanted no more relationships, someone came to change my mind about that. But there's something ovjective in this. When you're used to be alone, you enjoy the time you spend by yourself, you get to knwow your deeper thoughts and perspectives, and you know what do you need to reassure that feeling of wholeness. I've said this before, but I'll say it again: We don't need anyone in our lifes to feel complete about ourselves, because we're not anyone's half. So what I got to understand was that people that experience a healthy loneliness will not tolerate situationships that make them feel bad, because they feel good enough by themselves. Am I wrong?

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Take it easy, bruh

It's hard to find a balance in life... This week I was with a speed that only made crash a wall of paralysis. I got overwhelmed because there were things that I wanted to do, but I couldn't do because of higher things that weren't under my control. Even though I tried several times, it was impossible. Thanks to a friend I was able to see the message. Maybe what I really had to do was sitting down and not stressing myself. When things are out of our control, is maybe because is not our time to have or to experience that. Maybe something better is coming in future and a juiciest opportunity will open up to us. By now, what I actually can do is improving my skills and enjoying the things I love to do, until that moment begins.

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Does it deserve all of this from me?

The experience I mentioned previously made me also think on a new way of facing daily struggles and taking care of myself. When something is making me feel sad, anxious, nervous, etc. a target question would be: "Is this bad experience worthy?" Because sometimes we give too much of us to things that don't deserve that effort or that are meaningless to our growth. Is important to analyze if our actions are aligned with our purpose, and if they are functional to what we want.

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Keep money flowing

Money is probably one of the most misunderstood energies on Earth. Money is something we created to exchange for another experiences. Sometimes we focus so much on money that it becomes something hard to handle. I've found funny to keep circulating money because even when I might don't have too much today, I might tomorrow. Idk, if you want you can try 😆.

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