Men, your post is filled with so much wisdom.

It should be common sense to ask for what you need, but for some reason, we usually think the world is going to end if we ask for it. Heaven knows I'm mighty guilty of talking myself out of asking for my needs.

But like you said, if you're dealing with a mature person that wants what's best for the relationship in question, then all improvements should be welcome.

This is some really good advice that I didn't realize I needed until after reading. Thanks for this.
Do keep sharing your thoughts with us!