Greetings dear ladies of Hive, a new week has arrived, I hope this week you all do very well, today I come to participate in the initiative of the week and for this I will answer the two questions, let's start with the first one.
1️⃣ Some people are happier when it rains, while the mood of others tends to change and become melancholic (sad or depressed). How do you usually feel on rainy days and what are your favorite things to do?
I particularly love rainy days, they are cool and just make me feel at home, of course where I live the weather is very hot, a very strong sun that doesn't make me go out at strong sun hours, so rainy days bring a little refreshment to my life and the weather changes for the better.
But also rainy days have the particularity of making me feel a little melancholic, I start to remember a lot the past and my loved ones who are no longer on this earthly plane, so pir that part is not so good rainy days.
What I usually do these days is to watch TV and I will surely put on movies that make me cry, I'm a masochist and as I'm sad those movies help me to get everything out of my heart and to be able to let off steam. On the other hand I don't like to be out of the house on rainy days, I like to be at home.
2️⃣ A husband told his wife that he wants her to say "okay" and "yes" to everything he says to avoid further arguments or fights. What would you do if you were in his place? Would you agree and nod to everything, even when it was against your will or feelings? Share your opinion.
In this hypothetical case of course I say no hehehe, we are human and we all have different opinions, we can not say yes to everything if we do not agree, we all have rights to our opinions and marriage must know how to carry a good communication, both sides must have a balance, neither he can say all yes to her or she all yes to him.
Marriage is often complicated, I have seen people or women who say yes to everything to their husband, and that looks very ugly, and also those who do everything to them, I remember a girl who worked with me and her husband the same, he felt he took advantage of her, he could be at the desk he called her and asked her for water, he dropped a pencil and told her to pick it up, it was like being in a dictatorship that is neither communication, nor love, nor respect, I do not agree with marriages like that.
This is my participation of the week, I invite friend @mariajcastro to participate 😉.
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Saludos queridas damas de Hive, una nueva semana a llegado, espero que esta semana todas les valla muy bien, hoy vengo a participar en la iniciativa de la semana y para ello voy a responder las dos preguntas, comencemos con la primera.
1️⃣ Algunas personas son más felices cuando llueve, mientras que el estado de ánimo de otras tiende a cambiar y se vuelven melancólicas (tristes o deprimidas). ¿Cómo te sientes normalmente en los días de lluvia y cuáles son tus cosas favoritas para hacer?
Los días de lluvia particularmente a mi me encantan, son frescos y solo provoca estar en casa, claro está en donde vivo el clima es muy caliente, un sol muy fuerte que no provoca salir a horas de sol fuerte, por ellos los días de lluvia traen un pequeño refrigerio a mi vida y el clima cambia para bien.
Pero también los días de lluvia tienen la particularidad de hacerme sentir un poco melancólica, me pongo a recordar mucho el pasado y a mis seres amados que ya no están en este plano terrenal, así que pir esa parte no es tan bueno los días de lluvia.
Lo que acostumbro hacer en estos días sin duda es ver televisión y de seguro pondré películas que me hagan llorar, es que soy masoquistas y como ando triste esas películas me ayudan a sacar todo lo de adentro y poder desahogarme. Por otra parte no me gusta estar fuera de casa en los días de lluvia, me gusta estar en casita.
2️⃣ Un marido le dijo a su esposa que desea que ella diga "está bien" y "sí" a todo lo que él diga para evitar más discusiones o peleas. ¿Qué harías si estuvieras en su lugar? ¿Estarías de acuerdo y asentirías a todo, incluso cuando fuera en contra de tu voluntad o de tus sentimientos? Comparte tu opinión.
En esta caso hipotético claro que le digo que no jejeje, somos humanos y todos tenemos opiniones diversas, no podemos decir si a todo sino estamos de acuerdo, todos tenemos derechos a nuestras opiniones y el matrimonio debemos saber llevar una buena comunicación, de ambos lados debe haber un equilibrio, ni él le puede decir todo si a ella o ella todo si a él.
El matrimonio es muchas veces complicado, si he visto personas o mujeres que le dicen a todo si a su esposo, y eso se ve muy feo, y también las que les hacen todo, recuerdo una muchacha que trabajó conmigo y su esposo igual, él sentía se aprovechaba de ella, podía estar en el escritorio la llamaba y le pedía agua, se le caía un lápiz y le decía que lo recogiera, era como estar en una dictadura eso no es ni comunicación, ni amor, ni respeto, no estoy de acuerdo con los matrimonios así.
Esta es mi participación de la semana, invito a la amiga @mariajcastro a participar 😉.
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Rain is welcoming and refreshing when the weather is hot or humid. Watching TV or movies is most likely a good way to spend it more so when you let out what you have been keeping deep inside :)
I agree with you. It's not good to say yes to everything. Doing so would feel like we have no freedom at all. Too bad for that man who treated his wife like a slave. Terrible thing to do, I must say.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us :)
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Thanks for reading friend, yes it is very sad that a man treats his wife like that and worse is that she lets herself be treated like that.
Thanks for your support 🤗😍😍.
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STOPI love the rain. It actually makes me very energetic and I could get two weeks worth of work done in a day if the weather is dreary and wet. I don't know why it is that way for me... lol
That's great that this is happening to you in the rain, you are more productive, that's great.
The rain has to be one of my best moments. There's nothing I can't get through or done when I have the raining battering on my roof. It's a lovely sensation like no other.
How great to know that rainy days activate you, that's good 👍.
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