Very good question. I guess value and money are different. Value is relative to the individualism that two individuals share marginally. If the aspirations of both exceed the current social status and are not projected by outside influences and ideals in society, both parties can agree two move strategically as a team. Most relationships are one sided and one of the humans become dependent. This is also due to the role that women and men have in society. That archaic entrenched way is slowly changing.
Unfortunately security is what women crave, and many also because they can't give it to themselves. The same although also applies to some men. Ambition, teamwork, and division of labour can also help to improve the economic situation in a family or a household.
Experiencing that it takes a lot of power of manifestation, order, tidiness, discipline as well as a good plan which both sides execute. An aim.
I was just thinking about swiggy the other day and how any kitchen can turn into a successful business if located conveniently?