Sometimes we get lost between the beautiful and the ugly, sometimes they make us feel little just for not having a nice makeup or simply for not wearing fashionable clothes, unfortunately that's how today's society is, hurtful that does not care what it makes that person feel less valued just for not having the resources or simply for not being like everyone else.
Does it happen to me? I can say yes, but I have learned to surround myself with people who are more for the beautiful friendship and trust than for the appearance, that's why today my circle of friends is small, because I simply do not have to pretend something I'm not and today we live by the appearance.
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A veces nos perdemos entre lo bonito y lo feo, a veces nos hacen sentir poca cosa solo por no tener un bonito maquilla o simplemente por no usar la ropa de moda, lamentablemente así es la sociedad de hoy en día, hiriente que no le importa lo que hace sentir a esa persona que menos precian solo por no tener los recursos o simplemente por no ser como los demás.
¿Que si me pasa a mí? Puedo decir que sí, pero he aprendido a rodearme de personas que estén más por la bonita amistad y la confianza que por la apariencia, por eso será que hoy en día mi círculo de amistades es pequeño, porque simplemente no tengo para aparentar algo que no soy y hoy en día se vive de la apariencia.
Although I was one of those who wanted the best, I'm not saying it's bad, but when you can't you can't and that's it, but when you can you have every right, but if we can think about our actions why we do it we have no answer, so for a few years I have learned not to pretend what I do not have, I want the person who knows me and likes me to like me for my personality and not for my appearance, of course as women we have to take care of ourselves, but in this pathetic society we live in today, women have the most hollow brain, they want to live on the outer beauty without working on the inner beauty, that's why I don't worry so much about being more than the account to be always simple, if one day I can't take out my eyebrows I won't get frustrated I just see the positive side, they are growing and they are natural, when I'm going to take them out they will be able to make me a thicker and better shape, if I don't paint my nails, I'll do it when I can, while I'm wearing my nails, If I don't wear fashionable clothes I have a closet full of clothes that I can combine and select that can still be used without having to buy, I still work from Monday to Friday and those days I have to wear comfortable clothes and almost uniform because I will be in a construction site for 8 hours without going out.
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Aunque yo fui una de esas que quería lo mejor, no digo que sea malo, pero cuando no se puede no se puede y listo, pero cuando se puede estas en todo tu derecho, pero si nos podemos a pensar en nuestras acciones el porqué lo hacemos no tenemos respuesta, por eso desde hace unos años he aprendido a no aparentar lo que no tengo, de que la persona que me conozca y les agrade sea por mi personalidad no por mi apariencia, claro está como mujeres nos tenemos que cuidar, pero en esta sociedad tan patética que vivimos hoy en día las mujeres tienen el cerebro más hueco quieren vivir de la belleza exterior sin trabajar la interior, por eso será que me preocupo menos en arreglarme más de la cuenta estar siempre sencilla, si un día no puedo sacarme las cejas no me voy a frustrar simplemente le veo el lado positivo están creciendo y están naturales, cuando me las vaya a sacar me van a poder hacer una forma gruesa y mejor, si no me pinto las uñas, que tanto cuando pueda lo haré mientras usaré un brillo y así crecen sanas, si no tengo ropa de moda el closet ll tengo full de ropa que puedo combinar y seleccionar que aún pueda usarse sin necesidad de comprar, igual trabajo de lunes a viernes y esos días tengo que usar ropa cómoda y casi que uniforme porque estaré en una obra por 8 horas sin salir.
If I am thin better times will come to gain weight without wanting to I will not obsess about “what people will say” because only I know what I'm struggling, only I know why I do it and if it is not in my priorities I will not do it, that is something that many do not understand prefer to walk with new portfolio but the empty fridge, because that makes them feel pretty, but no. We are all pretty since we were born in the eyes of the right people, we are all beautiful since we are born for the eyes of the right people, we do not have to be meeting standards that we ourselves have created, we have to love ourselves as we come into this world, feel privileged because we have life and learn to love ourselves without comparing ourselves, learn to be ourselves without masks, learn to be sincere from the heart ❤️ and you will see how good it feels.
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Si estoy delgada vendrán tiempos mejores para subir de peso sin querer no me voy a obsesionar con "el que dirán" porque solo yo sé lo que estoy batallando, solo yo sé por qué lo hago y si no está en mis prioridades no lo haré, eso es algo que muchas no entiendes prefieren andar con cartera nueva pero la nevera vacía, porque eso las hace sentir lindas, pero no, linda somos todas desde que nacemos para los ojos de las personas indicadas, no tenemos que estar cumpliendo estándares que nosotras mismas hemos creado, tenemos que amarnos tal cual como llegamos a este mundo, sentirnos privilegiadas porque tenemos vida y aprendamos amarnos sin compararnos, aprendamos a ser nosotras mismas sin máscara, aprendamos hacer sinceras desde el corazón ❤️ y verán lo bien que se siente.
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You're right. Many times women tend to live by what people say. We tend to mask up wo we really are. But there's no joy that's compared to being yourself. Who sets the standards anyways?
That's right friend, we have to love ourselves as we are, and forget those standards that other people put in society to be accepted as long as we feel good what others say should not affect us.
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