We need to be very alert and practical when it comes to money, especially women as their vulnerabilities are exploited and often taken advantage of.
IS IT RIGHT TO SHARE YOUR FINANCIAL DETAILS WITH YOUR SPOUSE ?
Before answering that lets go to the roots of the big tree -
- See how he feels about your success. Does he push you for new challenges.
- If you are away for a long time for work is he comfortable with long distance relationship. It tells if he respects your work.
- Ask him if he earned enough money in future will he be fine with you being a homemaker and nurture kids?
If he says NO, that means he knows the value of FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE & WORK SATISFACTION.
Now coming to sharing financial details...
Yes, there is nothing wrong in sharing financial details in a healthy relationship.
There are many aspects about managing finances. Its a very positive and a healthy discussion to have. Discussing about government polices, bank schemes, interests, fixed deposits, future plans, country's economy and where you stand. Most importantly secondary sources of income like crypto and investing in shares and many more.
You both will have different expertise this will help you evolve together. But you are obviously not the undeclared owner of each others money.
Addressing women
- Before entering into any relationship you need to be capable of managing your finances alone.
- You are taken advantage of when you are dependent.
- Don't trust blindly before seeing if your prospective partner brings value to your life.
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Its a beautiful union when two mature independent adults who wish to see each other succeed come together❣️.
Interesting points you shared, and I agree with you that she needs to be sure she is in a healthy relationship to share such details.
!LADY
Absolutely. Thanks for reading.
I also agree with you lady, there is no crime in sharing financial status with ones spouse if it's a healthy relationship. But if not, it more better to walk away from the relationship or keep mute because it might lead to the lady's death if she's more wealthy than the husband
Yes we should always keep a check on quality of our relationships.❣️
your points are true, you need to be able to manage your finances as woman, but also as a man, because some man are not able to do that manage their own finances and become also vulnarable to be taken advantance of. So in general i would say, be able to manage your own life, including your finances 😊
Indeed. the best relationship is of two independent individuals.💕
Nice write up!
In a relationship there should be trust and one should be very sure of the kind of relief he or she is into before letting everything out on the table.
Exactly relief is a must.
Yes, I do agree one learn to be a good manager of one's fund and one should not trust blindly.
exactly.
According to your publication. Personally, I think you should have your own separate accounts. Own for common projects and family growth, but always preserve individuality and pay for personal dreams.
No doubt one should pay for their own dreams but can share details with their partner if they are willing to. @astrea
I do agree that women's vulnerability are sometimes exploited which is why we need to learn how to manage our finances. And I do agree that sharing details helps.
Yes. And thanks for stopping by ❤️
Si hay confianza en la pareja y nos sentimos seguras de nosotras y nuestras finanzas, pienso que si podemos compartir los detalles, por qué no? Jeje
Estoy de acuerdo en lo que dices y los puntos que compartes, amiga
sí, absolutamente nunca querré estar con alguien con quien no me siento cómoda para compartir nada.
Gracias por leer.