Ladies of Hive Contest #63: Would you trade 10 years of life for wealth and fame?

Hello Ladies of Hive community and my friends.

I am a new member of Hive and this is my first post on the Ladies of Hive community. Thank youall for creating this wonderful community for women, I am so grateful for it.I've been busy this week working all day and taking care of my little girl, but I still wanted to enter this contest because I really wanted to write something. I love writing, when I was young I participated in many story writing and content creation competitions.As time goes by, I am older and have a little daughter, my heart is also older and my imagination is not as rich as when I was young. The pressures of life about work, family and money made me go to earn money every day from morning until night. And the pain in life has also made me forget many of my joys and hobbies. For example sometimes I want to buy a dress I love but I think about my daughter and I decided not to buy that dress, I have saved my money to buy more clothes or food for my daughter.

Anyway money is very important in life and it is the dream of many people in the world. Do you like money? Do you want to earn more money? Please tell me. Now I will analyze for you some of my views on "money"..

What is money ? The role of money in human life.

Money is a 'means' to exchange commodity and services with the aim of satisfying human needs.For example, you want to eat something, you want to buy something or you want to enjoy a certain travel, you need money. Money can make people happier and help people do many things that they love.A woman with a lot of money will have autonomy in her own life, their self-worth will also be enhanced, and that makes them a confident woman.That's even more true in the "Value men above women" society.Some women have to stay at home to clean and take care of their children, they are not allowed to work, all expenses are covered by their husbands. That's why sometimes they don't have a say in the family because they don't have money to do anything, everything they want has to ask for money from their husbands.Moreover, staying at home for too long will make them more self-conscious and difficult to take care of themselves.Men need money to assert their "class" in society and they are the breadwinner of the family, they will have to pay more than women.Men need money and women need money too, so does anyone here hate money?

What is Fame? Do people like popularity?

Famous people include: singers, actors, models, musicians, painters, etc or businessmen, scientists, professors, doctors,billionaire.. Fame makes some people happier and more comfortable, when they can prove their competence or their earning ability or they want to gain more fans. The majority of young people today prefer being famous, being famous in the 4.0 technology era is much easier than in the past. Some people are famous for their beauty, knowledge or talent but others are famous for their scandals, dirty PR or doing weird and offensive actions.They all want the public's attention.You can see that famous people are often very rich.

So can fame and money make us happy?

It can make most people happy, I guess but there are people who have money and fame but are still unhappy.They may lack some things like time, health, love, intimacy, friends, etc.There are many people who work their whole life to be rich and famous but when they get old they are sad lonely people. Money and fame are very important in life - that's right but.. they have forgotten that there are many things in life that are more important than those things. Many people are rich and famous, but their children are spoiled and lazy because they have not cared about their development or they have not educated their character. Most artists (or people working in the field of art) do not have a happy married life, because they are always busy and do not have time to care for each other.Some people try to make a lot of money but ignore their own health, they miss the best time with their family. And until they get sick and lie on their hospital beds that they realize that money isn't everything. Can all the money they've earned buy health, family time, happy marriages, good children, or true friendships?

Would you trade 10 years of life for wealth and fame?

The average Vietnamese life expectancy is 73 years old, if I exchange 10 years of my life for wealth and fame, I can only live until 63years old or less. I don't want to make that stupid exchange. Because life is so short, no one can know when we will die. And no one knows what cause we will die, old age, disease or accident? So what if you die before you feel the joy of riches and fame? If someone chose to reduce their lifespan by 10 years and choose wealth and fame, would they be able to enjoy those things to the fullest? My answer is: I choose to live a normal life with my dear family, my sincere friends.

If I had one wish I would wish the people around me would have a happy life, right now while I'm breathing I always want to give them all the best. If I lose my life, how will my family live? If I choose to be rich and famous but I am no longer alive, will the people around me really be happy?

No matter how busy I am at work, I always spend the evening talking to my daughter. Talking regularly with your children will help you understand your child's thoughts, thereby helping your child develop a good personality. Every Sunday I usually take my daughter out and meet my friends, we always have great moments at that time. That's enough for me!

I cherish every moment with the people I love and I don't want my time to be reduced. Doing charity, loving your family, your Friends, and yourself , you will receive in return what is more valuable than wealth and fame.

In this post I would like to invite @thanhnga99 , she's a girl who works hard every day with nice heart.
And thanks again to @trangbaby for bringing me to this contest.

Thank you for reading my post. Have a nice day and good luck, stay healthy!

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