Concurso comunitario Ladies of Hive #74
If you could change one thing about your personality, what would it be?
First of all, a cordial greeting to all of you, I was reading the questions of this week's contest (Contest #74) and it seems easy to answer these questions, however the first one is self- exam, it is a tricky question, usually we women are perfect, however it is important to get to this point since our personal and interpersonal development and evolution depend on it, if we deceive ourselves then who is going to understand us, it is important know our qualities as defects.
Concurso comunitario Ladies of Hive #74
Si pudieras cambiar algo de tu personalidad, ¿qué sería?
Ante todo un cordial saludo a todas ustedes , estaba leyendo las preguntas del concurso de esta semana ( Concurso #74) y pareciera fácil responder estas preguntas , sin embargo la primera es auto-examen, es una pregunta capciosa por lo general nosotras las mujeres somos perfectas , sin embargo es importante llegar a este punto ya que de ello depende nuestro desarrollo y evolución tanto personal como interpersonal si nos engañamos nosotras mismas entonces quien nos va a entender , es importante saber nuestras cualidades como defectos .
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In general, all women have a unique perfection, whether we are tall, short, thin, chubby, dark-haired, white, etc. but we differentiate ourselves is in our personality that does not mean that we are better than anyone else we only have different defects, it is because of them that I proceed to answer the question stipulated above.
En general todas las mujeres tenemos una perfección única bien seamos altas, bajas, delgadas, gorditas, morenas, blancas etc. pero nos diferenciamos es en nuestra personalidad eso no quiere decir que seamos mejor que nadie solo tenemos defectos diferentes, es por ellos paso a responder la pregunta ante estipulada.
If you could change one thing about your personality, what would it be?
Honestly it is difficult to answer this question because normally we have many things to change, my childhood was not normal and I had to develop certain attitudes to advance in life but in the long run they are things of my personality that are not right.
Si pudieras cambiar algo de tu personalidad, ¿qué sería?
Sinceramente es difícil responder esta pregunta porque normalmente tenemos muchas cosas que cambiar, mi infancia no fue normal y tuve que desarrollar ciertas actitudes para avanzar en la vida pero a la larga que son cosas de mi personalidad que no están bien .
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I am a very controlling person, sometimes I know that I suffocate my family with so much control, above all I control them to advance and that they never stop loving me since I have lived with them for many years my adoptive family. In general, if something has to be done in the house, and I don't do it myself, I always think that something is wrong because of the same control that I have, I am a perfectionist person who goes hand in hand with the control of my personality, this The same control and perfection for things make me advance in other areas of life, only then I was able to be a manager of several fast food stores, such as Full Pizza, Beneventos and Quiznos.
Soy una persona muy controladora a veces se que asfixio a mi familia de tanto control, sobre todo controlo a que avancen y que nunca dejen de quererme ya que vivo de hace muchos años con mi familia adoptiva. Por lo general si se tiene que hacer algo en la casa, y no lo hago yo misma siempre pienso que algo malo tiene por el mismo control que poseo, soy una persona perfeccionista que va agarrado de la mano con el control de mi personalidad, este mismo control y perfección por las cosas hacen que avance en otros ámbitos de la vida, solo así pude ser gerente de varias tiendas de comida rápida, como Full Pizza, Beneventos y Quiznos.
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Normally I have always been a compassionate and caring person for others but sometimes this is counterproductive for me since I am one of those people who if I have an arepa and you have nothing to eat I would give you my arepa without any problem, because I feel compassion for others and if they are children even more so. I am working on this because when I see humanity in general I see a lot of injustice and this affects me in such a way that it makes me very angry not being able to change the situations of love, economy, people's health but the reality is that I am not God that he is the only superior being that can make these things change I am just an imperfect human being like any other being.
Normalmente siempre he sido una persona compasiva y humanitaria por los demás pero a veces esto es contraproducente para mí ya que soy de las personas que si tengo una arepa y tú no tienes nada que comer te daría mi arepa sin ningún problema, porque siento compasión por el prójimo y si son niños más aun. Estoy trabajando en esto ya que cuando veo a la humanidad en general observo mucha injusticia y esto me afecta de tal manera que me da mucha ira no poder cambiar las situaciones de amor, economía, salud de las personas pero la realidad es que no soy Dios que es el único ser superior que puede hacer que estas cosas cambien solo soy un ser humano imperfecto como cualquier otro ser.
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As a child I never received physical or loving affection from my relatives, I get stressed when someone touches my shoulder or arm in one way or another, that is, I don't like physical contact alone if necessary, I usually have a very small nucleus with which I feel comfortable, I may not touch anyone but I am very loving and detailed, I show it with facts, now that I am an adult I know that physical contact is normal and that it is not It's normal to stress about it, I already have time working to improve.
I know that I am a very imperfect person but I also have very good qualities, I am loving, honest, loyal, respectful, persevering, kind.
Como de niña nunca recibí afecto físico ni amoroso de mis familiares me estreso cuando alguien me toca de una u otra manera el hombro el brazo, es decir no me gusta el contacto físico solo si es necesario por lo general tengo un núcleo muy pequeño con el cual me siento cómoda , puede que no toque a nadie pero soy muy amorosa y detallista lo demuestro con hechos, ahora que soy adulta se que es normal el contacto físico y que no es normal estresarme por ello ya tengo tiempo trabajando para mejorar.
Se que soy una persona muy imperfecta pero también tengo muy buenas cualidades, soy amorosa, honesta, leal, respetuosa, perseverante, bondadosa.
Invito a esta comunidad y a participar en este concurso a @mariacordova
Whereas we all find something about ourselves we'd like to change (whether a personality trait or a physical trait), but the sum of all of these things make us up to be the person we are. Thanks for sharing and have a lovely day!
I am very sure you are alright!
So ... you are controlling and a perfectionist...
A little is okay, hahaha!
Good luck with the contest! Thanks for sharing, @marydelmar70.
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I hear you @marydelmar70 What we communicate or ability to Care for another can vary from individual to individual, and sometimes the recipient misses leading to confusing communication. What talents and gifts we lack we make up for in other areas of our abilities.
Thanks for sharing ❤️