Life and love

Its been awhile thou..
I just want to share something here about why love sometimes can not always go the way we all plan or want it to go.

there was this guy around my side who fell in love with a girl, they have both known each other since childhood.
This two where in same church,
Same primary school,
Same secondary school,
And even ended up in same university too..
Life felt so perfect that where already seing themselves as couples that.
Just like that they were both in university and where even studying in same faculty, hers was civil engineering while he was a mechanical engineer.
They spent a lot of time together and eventually started dating.
Love was in the air,
It felt like magic,
And their life felt like it was destined for them too..
But after graduation, they both got jobs in different countries.
They graduated as one of the best in their school among 10 others and where giving scholarship...
But unfortunately they were giving job opportunities in two different counties..
After 3years of trying to communicate everything feels like fading because of distance,
They tried to make long-distance work but it was really hard.
They missed each other a lot and couldn't see each other as often as they wanted.

Eventually, they decided to break up so they could focus on their careers. It was really hard for both of them, but they knew it was the right thing to do.

/Key thing is that,
Long distance relationships can be really tough, and it's not always easy to make them work/.

It's possible that the guy and girl felt like they couldn't maintain their relationship while living in different countries, and even if they were able to visit each other sometimes it will still be hard especially when you consider expenses too..
And unless one of them will be willing to give up his or her carrier to make it work.
They might have felt like they needed to focus on their careers and personal lives instead of trying to make a long-distance relationship work.

In as much as love can be a powerful motivator to make things work.
However, long-distance relationships can be really challenging and require a lot of effort and commitment from both partners.
It's possible that they both didn't feel like they were up for the challenge of trying to make their relationship work because of long distance.

In reality,
It's definitely possible for love to bring two people back together again, even after they've broken up. But its going to be hard thou even when they still have feelings for each other, they might decide to give their relationship another chance.
However, it's also possible that they could meet people that are closer and then decided to move on and are happy with their current lives.

Love can be genuine but ,Long-distance relationships can be really challenging, if only both partners are committed to making it work and are willing to put in the effort, it can be successful. It takes a lot of communication, trust, and patience.