Jibber-Jabber

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Fifty-Five'err, What's In A Number

Doing the math it dawns on me you just hit seventy, I seldom speak about personal issues unless out of the ordinary.

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Summing up the first ten years absolutely bloody fantastic, we got into mischief, had many hidings, outings and holidays who could complain. Not rich, but not poor either we never went to bed without a meal, spent many hours in the garden tending to the plants that would feed you. We played outdoors till the sun went down, no phones to bother you, everyone arrived, sometimes earlier if chores needed to be done before parents arrived, each of the four siblings had chores, no questioning that one!

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Once a year holidays, taken December 1960 at Bakoven Cape Town

Next ten years exploring, younger version less likely to cause havoc, after thirteen a bit of a rebel, from fifteen to nineteen another story.... Smoked a bit of this and that, tasted a bit, baked some, zoned out to music it was a groovy time to be alive. Fortunately this experience did not bite, seeing what was going on around made one realize quite quickly many were in too deep. That was fun but not long term, climb off the bus and grow up! Strange story a communist under every bush back then...." Sorry no photos, too broke/busy, no camera....

Twenties to forties much change, oddities, life within our own country, finding a career, marriage, travel, all new, by now the earlier years already stored in the closet. Words of warning now rang true to what we had been taught within the home.

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Original note given to me by my Father on my 16th Birthday, spoke louder than words!

Some jibber-jabber I do recall you may be interested in...

  • Never fall in love with the company you work for, sub-rules given, never discuss family, religion or politics at work!

  • Always have a plan B, as a woman if one position made you uncomfortable be sure to look around at another, office lifestyle tended to a cauldron of mixed emotions, often leading to affairs, fall outs, best be avoided in matters private.

  • I strongly urge young folk to develop alternate income streams, learn and never stop learning!

  • Save some to invest, or start your own business. Don't climb into debt when offered, never spend more than you make.

  • If you see a better opportunity elsewhere take it, more experience gained is of far more value.

  • You & your family come first then your employer, not the other way around, avoid large companies, they are the worst.

  • When companies change name of Personnel Dept., to Human Resources is the day people became a commodity.

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Saturday sons and daughter-in-law visited due to work week interfering with life, had a quiet braai (BBQ) with gifts you consume, no longer need more while still attempting to declutter. Outdoor cooking then run indoors under the aircon, eat in peace away from flies that bug you, or mosquito all arrive uninvited. We will celebrate in winter with going out somewhere nice!

Countries change, evolve often not the way one anticipates, from having a 'commie' hiding under every bush, we now live with socialist/communist ideology, it all depends on who you talk to. There are still many South African's who fight for democracy.

Most memorable landmark now is tangible excitement toward positive moves, I wish Donald Trump everything of the best with his team, sweep clean. I hope this attitude runs like a pandemic, evident with Javier Milei, the West needs a reshuffle, back to basics while moving tentatively forward with new technology.

Jibber jabber over, a new year dawns, another chapter, never despair loved ones always catch you when you falling....

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All photography my own, go out and have a wonderful day wherever you live in our wonderful world.

Thought for Today: "A woman is never old when it comes to the dance she knows." - African Proverb

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I think you write similar to your dad and he seems poetic from reading the not. Quite a lovely thing and so much lovely to have kept it for this long.

Isn't those younger years just better, I miss them.

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Both my parents did some writing for magazines or small publishing depending on what was irking them at the time.

Think back to the early years with utmost respect to parents and siblings, we worked together under great guidance and care.

You have presented the flow of life beautifully.

I especially like the "guidelines" you've added. Absolutely agree with points 1 and 4. Being in a toxic workplace I have learnt to keep my personal live private.

And to get out of the corporate world, the only way in this day is to begin a side hustle.

Great post ❤️

Guidelines from my Mom, actually stood in good stead then and now, things I remember helped me along my entire career path. Be kind to those around you and to yourself always.

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That note must've been a very long time, probably over 40 years ago, since papers like that are not made anymore. It seems like a poem because of the pattern of writing

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54 years ago, I glued it into a book out of a diary for phone numbers and addresses that I had for many years.

Dad was 'old school' born 1911, kept many great pieces he also held onto, great meaning found in written word.

Indeed, it's been such a long time

Yup that is has, thanks for the tip, only realized after I posted and hope life is treating you better health wise.

You're welcome. Thanks a million for your kind words..

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It's fascinating to hear about how much has changed over the decades

Massive change happened over my lifetime, imagine how much more is yet to come. Life is exciting, we always need to remain grounded and try our best to keep up.

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Wishing you many more years of wisdom, adventure, and cherished moments with your loved ones!😊

Hopefully good years ahead, always enjoy waking up to the sound of life!

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!PIZZAIt is very touching the journey through those stages lived, full of emotions and fun, very wise notes of your father, and it is very true that your loved ones always hold you when you fall, I love it, thanks for sharing my dear @joanstewart,

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Given good guidance, older allowed time to explore, make mistakes and learn from them. Lifestyle so changed, one no longer recognizes how much outside interference affects the youngsters today.

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Happy birthday! It's great to reminisce about those beautiful years past, and what a meaningful note your father has given you, full of wisdom and guidance.💗 Thank you for sharing the jibber-jabber. They are a gem!

So much happens over time, it is exciting to see what has been and what possibly could be, hold onto positive outlook!

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I look forward to this new chapter in my country. Take care and have a lovely day! !LUV !LADY🤗💜Thank you for sharing @joanstewart! The world is a crazy place and your jibber-jabber does make total sense.

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We could write books worth of memories, takes too much time!

Time to move forward, watching change in your country will have major negative affects to us. Still cling to hope, not greed, more balanced, with heart being in the right place.

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Is that real?!

Not sure, reaching 70..., still scratching my head amazed! Life experienced, I am sure most feel has many lessons.

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Awe Joan, how could I forget your big seven! What an absolutely lovely Jibber-Jabber! Our lives were very much alike, especially the teens! Yes,we tried Durban poison but that's as far as it went. Seeing people do heavy drugs and go cold turkey on the beachfront was very scary!
The music was amazing, and we were also afraid of the 'Commies' :) Exciting times to have grown up in.
I love the poem your Dad gave you, all the old photos as well, awesome memories of days gone by!
Happy happy birthday dearest Joan ♥️

We rowing the boat still that counts, thanks for wishes. Finding anyone who escaped testing a puff here or there (they're lying, or were not present), some friends died, scared the hell out of me. Hillbrow was our haunt before any teens afforded cars, varsity concerts, caught the train, then did the 'walk'.

Looking back one is astounded how little many know about life/times over here, gaslighting most our lives, quickly learn to read/query!

Both Mom and Dad incredible people I was so fortunate to have.

Thanks for wishes, we all have good reason to forget, now to look forward to the new year.... ❤️

Aw that letter from your Dad... So beautiful! He clearly loved you to bits.

He knew well enough those words would be cherished, both parents, I could never have wished for better.

Save some to invest, or start your own business. Don't climb into debt when offered, never spend more than you make.


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!LADYThat's some solid financial advice, @joanstewart! It's always a good idea to save and invest wisely. Starting your own business can be a rewarding venture, but it's important to have a clear plan and financial cushion before diving in. Avoiding unnecessary debt and living within your means are key to maintaining financial stability.

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Mom taught me well, always explained how to turn a penny into a pound. Now to find time to go through shoe box of stamps, coins along with medals I have yet to tackle.... once the big clean out of excess is done, find time to enjoy that as well. ❤️

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Hmm, saving to invest... start your own business..... Now that I am not able to return to work as a nurse due to a neurological disability. So I've been thinking of starting up a community Thrift store in my neighborhood as an extension of my Church's Single parents ministry. I don't quite have the capital when I run the numbers on a spreadsheet but doable if I can find an inexpensive location.
Some nuggets of wisdom here.

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Many have started from a garage, others sell through WhatsApp groups or similar that they start up online.

Starting within a community could be something many are looking for, local facility to sell off pre-loved items giving you a percentage on sale, or drop off for resale items no longer wanted. 'One mans trash is another's treasure.' Have fun and try.... !LUV