Thank you so much @thekittygirl for the wonderful questions that somehow can take a look back at our younger years.
When I was a child, I frequently heard my father that no need to study or continue and pursue a college level because I am a girl and only I become a housewife someday. Sadly, my father's mindset way back in the 80 was closed to some opportunities in the future.
I grow up without the support of my family when I graduated from grade school. I decided to work so that I continue my study in high school, I worked at the same time and studied at night. But since in the Philippines college tuition was quite expensive that and if no one supports you with tuition fees unless you are a scholar then chances are we fail our desire to fulfill to finish our schooling and that's what happened to me. I failed to continue my study after finishing high school.
At the age of 20, I met my husband and decided to have our own family without thinking about the possibility of having a family we thought that it is easy but we were wrong because I got pregnant and my husband don't have a stable job to sustain our needs. I thought that my father was right when he told me that someday I am just only in the house taking care of a baby, cleaning the house, cooking, and so on. That no need to have a degree although I am proud of my father because he didn't let my mother work since he has a mindset that a woman should only be in the house and wait for him and be contented with whatever he provides.
2 years of living together with my husband and having a baby without a stable job were difficult and that is the reason why I worked despite my father not agreeing with my decision that I am the one working for my family instead of my husband.
Some will criticize me because I am the one who was responsible for my kids instead of my husband but for me, I will never mind if I am the one who provides as long as we don't hurt anyone else and I can proudly say that I am living proof that whatever a man can do its possible that a woman can do it too.
It's me a hardworking mother
That's all for my entry and I would like to invite @mitch18 for I know you have an unforgettable experience in your childhood days.
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Wow. You are a strong woman, I admire you, though its not easy but you took on thr challenge and you don't care what others say that's good.
Hello, treasuree thank you for dropping by and leaving wonderful words to inspire me.
You are welcome🥰
Of course we can sis. There are lots of women can do the impossible just for their family. We are given a strong mind and decision to have the courage to do that. I admire you.
Hi, sis thank you for admiring my thoughts, and yes were strong and can do anything as long as not against the law hihi.
You are quite a strong woman and worthy of admiration. Men still don't know all that a woman can do when she puts her mind to it.
Maka hilak man sad ta aning nga story dae oy ,pasagdii ng mga tao oy basta ikaw gibuhat nimo ang tanan para sa imobg pamilya labi na sa anak.Sending hugs to you🤗🥰
Hahaha makahilak og pop corn dae .
I salute you sis 🥰🥰❤✨ Continue lang whatbyou love to do for your family sis ❤ Stay safe always! Laban 🥰
Yay, salamat sis.
i am relatable to you. thats the same words that my mother said to me because Im a girl.
Yes, sis because before they think that girl was only in the house but now everything changed whatever a man can do women do it too. Nice meeting you sis sorry for the long time response.
Thank you for your entry to our weekly contest! 😊
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Such an honor to be notified by you @thekittygirl thank you so much.
Salute to you dae. You're a strong woman for your family. Sa panahon karon, di na uso ang lalaki ra ang magbuhi sa pamilya, both man and woman ang pwede na.
You're worth more than gold. You're an inestimable jewel.
Don't ever get tired or discouraged because you are doing well!
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You should be very proud of yourself @cleophia2 that you have been taking care of your home so well. People who respect hard work will never pass any degrading comments. You need to walk with your head held high and be proud for whatever you are doing for your family
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Keep it up Sister, it's not too late to chase your academic dreams...
You simply came through because of your abilities and were not intimidated by the comments of others. Congratulations, a very good publication.
Laban lng dae! Ana mn jud ang kinabuhe. Dghn pagsulay pero ang tanan naay kasulbaran.
You do great and all that and being a mother is a huge task and I know that because I have the same. Support is here in the @ladiesofhive and on hive allover.
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Yay, thank you so much for noticing my article it's great pleasure for me.