I don't always encourage premarital sex because it always have a way of affecting the child in the future if not carefully worked upon
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I don't always encourage premarital sex because it always have a way of affecting the child in the future if not carefully worked upon
I do not think anyone should have premarital sex.
Marriage is hard enough without a newborn child right there from day one.
What is not taught is how marriage and having children WILL change your life. How it will make your life more challenging in every way. How it is not all Instagram posts and stuffed animals.
Teaching people what will REALLY happen after you have a child will make someone say "NO!" when things get hot and heavy.
But no one does that. They just tell you, as women, you will be called names. How it is immoral. How it is okay for men to 'sow their oats' because they are men, but women should sit home and wash their hair, waiting for the right man to pick her out of a crowd.
I think more men should be taught to keep it in their pants. They should be taught to respect women.
Saying that, men and women have free will. And in the moment, it is hard to realize the act you are doing WILL change your whole life in an instant. That the minute a woman becomes pregnant, your whole life will change forever. But no one teaches WHY it will change forever. They are just taught not to do the act.
I have seen many posts from women talking about how hard it is to raise a child.
I do not think I have ever seen a post from a man talking about how hard it is NOT to have premarital sex. If this changed, I think it might make it easier for future generations.
But that was not what the question I was answering was about.
Thank You for your great comment!!
Hear, hear! Though I would say ALL men should be taught these things. :) There's actually a great book about it called Ejaculate Responsibly. If only both boys AND girls were handed a copy upon attaining an age where they can procreate...but I digress. I'm not anti-sex or anti-kid, but I'm 100% against anyone making an uninformed decision about something as potentially life-changing as sex. And given how shitty the climate STILL is around sex ed, that's exactly what young'uns are doing.
I can't imagine being in your situation, though, having to raise a kid against the headwinds of grandparents who think you're an awful person for getting pregnant by their son. WTF? Were they really so stupid that they didn't realize he had to be a participant as well? I'm glad grandma finally came around, but that's just...the most illogical approach possible to the situation.
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