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I HAVEN'T BEEN IN THIS BEAUTIFUL COMMUNITY OF GIRLS FOR A LONG TIME BUT I CAME BACK TO SHARE A BEAUTIFUL POST.
Hello dear users of hive readers and writers, I want to share with you some lines where I express a series of things that I think any human being who could read me should start doing for a better quality of life.
I am not an expert in giving advice but I believe that these lines will help us a lot.
I am going to make my list of things I should do.
Maybe there is someone who has to do the same homework as me....
Don't stop searching for the woman I was and left behind at some crossroads of life... I've had enough of being the shadow of what I was...
To reconcile with myself... to recognize that I am not perfect, that I will never be perfect and that it is perfect to be a set of imperfections but to be original and not a cheap copy of what I should be...
To take back my spaces, it's not bad to share them, what's bad is that others take them...
Not to live to please everyone, that is something that no one will ever be able to achieve and besides I have no obligation to please everyone, there are people who will never understand the way I see life and it is a useless waste of energy to try to explain to those who do not want to understand...
Accept that my happiness depends only on me, that if I let it depend on the mood of others, I may as well be saying goodbye to being happy, because there are those who will always choose to focus on the problems and not on the solutions...
Not getting ahead of what I think is going to happen, 90% of the times what takes away our sleep ends up not happening but it ends up taking away part of our life, letting things flow...Enjoying what I have which is not little and what is more important...Today I have it tomorrow I do not know and I do not want to regret not having been able to enjoy it...
Not to expect too much from others, to understand that each one acts as he is, and gives what he has inside...
Trying to make the elm tree give me pears is not wise and it is a time wasted...
To keep on giving when I really feel it and to give it because it is good for me, when one gives out of obligation one ends up feeling cheated when it is not reciprocated...
To say no when I want to say no, to be always available is a kind of slavery, a kind of servitude, always running to save other people's skins... Is it worth it? I think that saying no is saving and a teaching to others that we will not be available every time it occurs to them ...
To value only those who value me and remember that I only owe loyalty to those who have been loyal to me...
To love those who love me and to erase definitively from my life those who do not, that love is there to be given and not to be wasted...
To do only what I feel like doing and those who don't like it should look the other way...
Remind people that I don't need other people's opinions, that when I want them I will ask for them... meanwhile I will thank them for keeping their opinions to themselves...
To look at myself every day in the mirror to realize that I am alive, that there is still a lot to live, a lot to know and that nobody... nobody but me knows what I want and what I feel...
To thank life for what I had and what I have, for what I am, for the people who were in my story and those who are there, for those who made me happy and those who fight every day to make me smile again, for the times I get up and remember that I am still standing or at least I try to stand despite the stones I stumbled over...
To love myself and live because what I do not live no one can do it for me...
To reconcile with destiny for what it took away from me because before it lent it to me and made me feel blessed for that...
If you got to this point thank you so much for that, and for taking a few minutes of your time for this post.
I hope and look forward to seeing you in future posts.
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TIEMPO SIN ESTAR POR ESTA BELLA COMUNIDAD DE CHICAS PERO VOLVÍ PARA COMPARTIR UN HERMOSO POST
Hola queridos usuarios de hive lectores y escritores quiero compartirles unas líneas donde expreso una serie de cosas que creo cualquier ser humano que pudiera leerme debería empezar hacer para una mejor calidad de vida.
No soy una experta en dar consejos ni mucho menos pero creo que estas líneas nos ayudaran bastante.
Voy a hacer mi listado de cosas que debo hacer.
Quizás haya alguien que tenga que hacer los mismos deberes que yo...
No cesar en la búsqueda de la mujer que fui y que deje olvidada en alguna encrucijada de la vida... ya está bien de ser la sombra de lo que fui...
Reconciliarme conmigo misma...reconocer que no soy perfecta, que nunca lo voy a ser y que está perfecto ser un conjunto de imperfecciones pero ser original no una copia barata de lo que debería ser...
Recuperar mis espacios, no es malo compartirlos, lo malo es que los demás se apropien de ellos...
No vivir para complacer a todo el mundo, eso es algo que nadie va a poder lograr nunca y además no tengo obligación de caerle bien a todos, hay gente que nunca va a entender la forma en que veo la vida y es un gasto inútil de energía tratar de explicarle a quien no quiere entender...
Aceptar que mi felicidad solo depende de mi, que si dejo que dependa del estado de ánimo de los otros, bien puedo estar despidiéndome de ser feliz, porque hay quienes siempre elegirán centrarse en los problemas y no en las soluciones...
No adelantarme a lo que creo que va a pasar, el 90% de las veces lo que nos quita el sueño termina no ocurriendo pero si nos termina quitando parte de la vida, dejar que las cosas fluyan...Disfrutando lo que tengo que no es poco y que lo que es más importante...Hoy lo tengo mañana no sé y no quiero arrepentirme de no haber sabido disfrutar de ello...
No esperar demasiado de los demás, entender que cada uno actúa como es, y da lo que tiene dentro...
Intentar que el olmo me de peras no es de sabios y es un tiempo malgastado...
Seguir dando cuando realmente lo siento y darlo porque a mi me hace bien, cuando uno da por obligación termina sintiéndose estafado cuando no es recíproco...
Decir que no cuando quiera decir no, estar siempre disponibles es una especie de esclavitud, de servidumbre, siempre corriendo para salvar pellejos ajenos... ¿vale la pena ? Creo que decir que no es salvador y una enseñanza hacia los otros sobre que no estaremos disponibles cada vez que se les ocurra ...
Valorar solo a quien me valore y recordar que solo le debo lealtad a quienes hayan sido leales conmigo...
Amar a quienes me aman y borrar definitivamente de mi vida a quienes no lo hacen, que el amor está para brindarlo y no para malgastarlo...
Hacer solo que tenga ganas de hacer y al que no le guste que mire hacia otro lado...
Recordarle a las personas que no necesito opiniones ajenas, que cuando las quiera las voy a pedir... mientras tanto les agradeceré que se guarden las opiniones...
Mirarme cada día al espejo para constatar que estoy viva, que todavía queda mucho por vivir, mucho por conocer y que nadie... nadie más que yo sabe lo que quiere y lo que siente...
Agradecerle a la vida lo que tuve y lo que tengo, lo que soy, las personas que estuvieron en mi historia y las que están, las que me hicieron feliz y las que luchan cada día porque vuelva a sonreír, las veces que me levante y recordar que todavía sigo de pie o al menos lo intento pese a las piedras con las que tropecé...
Amarme y vivir porque lo que yo no viva nadie podrá hacerlo por mi...
Reconciliarme con el destino por lo que me arrebató porque antes me lo prestó e hizo que me sintiera bendecida por eso...
Si llegaste a este punto muchísimas gracias por eso, y haber dedicado unos minutos de tu tiempo a este post.
Espero y deseo verte en próximos.
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That is so true but so difficult at the same time. We should all try and do that every single day especially in those days where everything is going from bad to worse.
Thanks for sharing and welcome back to LOH.
It is even more difficult because we find it hard to love ourselves, for many reasons, so we have to learn day by day in order not to fall apart so easily.
Thank you for sharing @ainoa. Have a good day!
Hello friend, good evening, thank you very much for your comment. greetings, happy night
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Hello @ainoa
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Hello very good afternoon, thank you very much for the words and so nice welcome, I was a little lost from here but I'm back :D
Good to see that you have made your way back here, @ainoa!
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Oh wow! Thank you very much for the detail and yes I'll keep it on hold for a while, and I'll be here more often :D
returning to one of my favorite sites :D
Many thanks for sharing here what you realized and want to do to better yourself and your life in general. I wish you the best!
If they are small details that can help us in our day to day life.
They absolutely do. They may seem small but their impacts when we apply them in life are great
Gracias @ainoa por tan maravillosos consejos, es muy cierto muchas veces nos quedamos atascados en el pasado sin ver el presente, Saludos
Hola aca no tengo que usar traductor jejeje, suele sucedes y mas cuando ese pasado nos deja alguna marca, sea positiva o negativa, pero hay que avanzar sea como sea. :D gracias por comentar y feliz dia
Asi es querida @ainoa como decian mis abuelos palante es pá yá,