LIVING IN FEAR FOR NOT KNOWING WHAT YOU ARE SUFFERING FROM (TRUE STORY)/ (ENG/ESP) VIVIR CON MIEDO POR NO SABER DE QUE SE PADECE (HISTORIA REAL)

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Hello my dear readers and writers of HIVE today I want to share with you a REAL LIFE story where I narrated a hard moment of a 15-year-old girl who suffered for a long time from lumps in her breasts which due to lack of financial resources could not go to a doctor and be examined and to this is added their depression due to another illness that they have in their body plus the life of stress that they have at home.

Victoria and the stress of her life made her sick until she had severe pain.

Victoria, 15 years old, a beautiful and intelligent girl, but with a disease that did not allow her to walk, she spent all her day locked in her room with her television, which was her great friend, but today I want to tell you what she suffered, apart from her disease in her legs and that she is young and was able to overcome it with courage and love from her mother.

She believed herself to be a strong young woman and that no one could against her, since her father was just as strong,
And when I refer to that, I say that she had her nerve and few things made her cry or at least not in public.

One day she began to feel a slight pain in one of her breasts that she thought were airs that accumulated due to some bad position that she had as she was always sitting, she came to think that and then she raised her arms and certain Airs and even the pain calmed down, which made her calm down, but after a while it came back.

And every day she was a little stronger, because of the love she had for her mother and because of the strength that according to her she had where she said that nothing could affect her, she made her not say anything to her mother and she did not know why. the bad that his daughter would be going through.

One night the pain was so strong that it wouldn't leave her, it was like a slight blow, but it wouldn't go away, and to this is added that she didn't want to tell anyone, that night she couldn't sleep and what she did was cry asking to God that will take away that pain that they will not take her to a Dr to heal, since she did not want to know more about medicine because most of her life had been spent in a hospital.

One day it was around 9 in the morning, Victoria saw an advertisement on television where they talk about breast cancer and they said TOCATE since the increase in cases in her country had increased a lot, so the media talked about that subject with great insistence, this made Victoria touch her breast and feel a small lump in one of them which scared her of what it could be, but that fear was nothing, since she didn't even talk to her mother to tell her what it was. what was happening in his body.

A small ball that began to grow as time went by and in her the pain and fear increased for not knowing what was happening, and sometimes thoughts of pain and some tragedy that could happen to a girl Victoria passed through her mind tired of hospitals

Her mother got help to take her to her doctor because even though they lived with her father, he was not responsible for her, and it was her mother who had to take care of everything for her.

When they got this help, they began to take her to the doctor but to treat her leg disease, (which we will deal with another time with more time is that it is very long hehe 😛) and they did not see what she already had in her breasts, if her breasts because the balls had already increased, they went from being 1 to many, both in the areola and in the mammary glands, several balls could be felt but the largest one was on the right side of the breast, which Victoria touched every day with fear, thinking thousands of things.

One day she talked to her mother and told her what she had and the fear she felt for feeling them, her mother began to seek help to take her to a Dr and to see her, she got a Dr who saw that she was already 19 and listened to her story He immediately prescribed a mammogram and an ultrasound to diagnose what she had, because at her age having a lump that was already noticeable when pasting her blouse was not normal.

Victoria had the ultrasound which hurt while they passed the machine, there it was possible to observe that she had a cyst of more than 4cms and approximately 10 small ones in each mother, all this due to the stress she suffered at home with her parents who argued about everything. plus the lack of money that was evident at all times, the good thing was that these cysts were benign and not cancerous.

That afternoon Victoria spoke with her father to ask him to please help her pay for the pills they sent her to relieve her discomfort, to which her father replied, I have no money, I can't, this type of response in this man her father they were very normal, since he always gave them to her.

This worried Victoria more, which led her to cry after her father left her room, those kinds of responses, despite the fact that they were normal for him, she did not get used to accepting them and for that reason she cried.

Her mother spoke with a friend who helped her pay for her medication, which was simply 3 boxes of vitamins E, when Victoria bought them she took them regularly as indicated by her specialist, but that treatment did not work, the cysts remained there, and due to lack of money she began to take different medicines and plants that according to her would heal her, among them centella asiatica, mala madre a plant and teas with different names that friends called her, but unfortunately they did not give the result that she wanted which was to remove them, this increased her pain and her depression many times and thus came the crying that more than anything was at night with the darkness and its silence.

But God heard her pain 😭 more than physical it was spiritual and he sent her some people to help her with her illness, which made her very happy and she started going to her Dr to treat the illness that affected her legs, but What Victoria did not imagine was that the same treatment would eliminate those cysts that made her cry.

One day, without realizing it, while taking a bath touching her breasts, she felt that the largest of her cysts was gone, which made her cry, but this time with happiness, since God, along with the treatment, eliminated, erased those cysts that for years made mischief in the body of a girl whose only social life was practically with her parents.

She thanked God for life because she is a believer that she removed those cysts that caused her pain and discomfort, although she could not go to the doctor anymore due to lack of financial resources, there are no longer any ailments or strange lumps in her body. she.

These types of true stories make us think that everything is not rosy and that God for us believers is the one who will help us grow every day.

Tell me what you think of this story, of Victoria's father?
If you got cysts what would be your reaction?
What other observation do you see in this story?

Leave me your answers in the comments I will be reading them.

If you got to this point, thank you very much, I hope to see you again in my next post.

Bye.


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ESPAÑOL

Hola mis queridos lectores y escritores de HIVE hoy os quiero compartir con ustedes una historia de la VIDA REAL donde os narró un duro momento de una joven de 15 años que padeció por mucho tiempo de bolitas en sus senos los cuales por falta de recursos económicos no podía ir a un Dr y examinarse y a esto se le suma su depresión por otra enfermedad que tiene en su cuerpo más la vida de estrés que tiene en su casa.

Victoria y el estrés de su vida la enfermaron hasta lograr fuertes dolores en ella

Victoria de 15 años, una niña bonita eh inteligente, pero con una enfermedad que no la dejaba caminar, pasaba todo su día encerrada en su cuarto junto con su televisor que era su gran amigo, pero hoy os quiero relatar lo que padeció, aparte de su enfermedad en las piernas y que está chica y pudo vencerlo con valentía y amor de su madre.

Ella se creía una joven fuerte y que nadie podía contra ella, ya que su padre era igual de formación fuerte,
Y cuando me refiero a eso digo es que tenía temple y pocas cosas la hacían llorar o por lo menos no en público.

Empezó un día a sentir un leve dolor en uno de sus senos que ella pensaba que eran aires que se le acumulaban por alguna mala posición que tenía como siempre estaba sentada, ella llegó a pensar eso y pues alzaba sus brazos y le salían ciertos Aires y hasta el dolor se le calmaba, lo que la hacía tranquilizarse, pero al rato volvía.

Y cada día era un poco más fuerte, ella por el amor que le tenía a su madre y por la fuerza que según ella tenía en dónde decía que nada le podría afectar, hacía que no le dijera nada a su madre y está no supiera por el mal que estaría pasando su hija.

Una noche el dolor fue tan fuerte que no la dejaba, era como un golpe leve, pero que no se iba, y a esto se le suma que no se lo quiere decir a nadie, esa noche no pudo dormir y lo que hizo fue llorar pidiendo a Dios que quitará ese dolor que no la llevarán a un Dr para sanar, ya que no quería saber más de medicina porque la mayor parte de su vida la había pasado en un hospital.

Un día eran como las 9 de la mañana victoria observá en la televisión una publicidad donde se habla del cáncer de mama y decían TOCATE ya que el aumento de casos en su país se había incrementado mucho así que los medio hablaban de ese tema con mucha insistencia, esto hizo que Victoria se tocará su seno y sintiera una pequeña bolita en uno de ellos lo que le dio miedo de lo que pudiera ser, pero ese miedo era nada ya que ni así hablo con su madre para decirle lo que ocurría en su cuerpo.

Una pequeña bolita que empezó a crecer a medida que fue pasando el tiempo y en ella incremento el dolor y el miedo por no saber qué estaba pasando, y a veces pasaba por su mente pensamiento de dolor y alguna tragedia que le pudiera pasar a victoria una chica cansada de los hospitales.

Su madre consiguió una ayuda para poder llevarla a su médico porque a pesar de que vivieran con el padre este no se hacía responsable de ella, y era su madre quien tenía que encargarse de todo.

Al conseguir esta ayuda empezaron a llevarla al médico pero para tratar su enfermedad de las piernas, (que ya trataremos en otra oportunidad con más tiempo es que es muy larga jeje 😛) y no vieron lo que tenía ya en sus senos, si sus senos porque ya las bolitas se habían incrementado pasaron de ser 1a muchas, tanto en la aréola como en las glándulas mamarias, se podían sentir varias bolitas pero la más grande en el seno derecho a un costado, que Victoria se tocaba todos los días con miedo, pensando miles de cosas.

Un día hablo con su madre y le dijo lo que tenía y el miedo que sentía por sentirlas, su madre empezó a buscar ayuda para llevarla a un Dr y que la viera, consiguió una Dra que al ver que ya tenía 19 y escuchar su historia inmediatamente le recetó una mamografía y una ecografía para diagnosticar que tenía, porque a su edad tener una bolita que al pegar su blusa ya se notaba no era normal.

Victoria se hizo la ecografía el cual le dolía mientras pasaban la máquina, allí se pudo observar que tenía un quiste de más 4cms y aproximadamente 10 pequeños en cada mamá, todo esto debido al estrés que padecía en su casa con sus padres que discutían por todo más la falta de dinero que se evidenciaba en todo momento, lo bueno era que estos quistes eran benignos y no cancerígenos.

En esa tarde victoria hablo con su padre para pedirle que por favor la ayudará a costear las pastillas que le mandaron para aliviar su malestar, a lo que su padre respondió, no tengo dinero, no puedo, este tipo de respuestas en este hombre su padre eran muy normal, ya que siempre se las daba.

Esto preocupo más a Victoria, lo que la llevó a llorar después que su padre salió de la habitación, ese tipo de respuestas a pesar de que eran normal en él ella no se acostumbraba a aceptarlas y por lo mismo lloraba.

Su madre habló con una amiga la cual la ayudo a costear su medicación que eran simplemente 3 cajas de vitaminas E, al comprarlas Victoria se las tomo regularmente como fue indicado por su especialista, pero ese tratamiento no le dio resultado, los quistes siguieron allí, y por falta de dinero empezó a tomar distintos medicamentos y plantas que según la sanarían, entre ellos centella asiática, mala madre una planta y tés con diferentes nombres que le decían amistades, pero que lastimosamente no daban el resultado que ella quería que era quitarlos, esto incrementaba su dolor y su depresión muchas veces y así venía el llanto que más que todo era por las noches con la oscuridad y el silencio de la misma.

Pero Dios escucho su dolor 😭 que más que físico era espiritual y le envío unas personas para ayudarle con su enfermedad, lo que hizo que ella se alegrará mucho y empezara a ir a su Dr para tratar la enfermedad que afectaba a sus piernas, pero lo que Victoria no se imaginaba era que el mismo tratamiento eliminaría esos quistes que la hacían llorar.

Un día, sin darse cuenta, mientras se bañaba al tocarse los senos, sintió que ya no estaba el más grande de sus quistes, lo que la hizo llorar, pero esta vez de felicidad, ya que Dios, junto con el tratamiento elimino, borro esos quistes que durante años hicieron de las suyas en un cuerpo de una chica que su única vida social era con sus padres prácticamente.

Agradeció a la vida a Dios porque es creyente que le quitó esos quistes que le causaban dolor y malestar, aunque no pudo ir más al Dr por la falta de recursos económicos, ya no hay dolencias ni bultos extraños en su cuerpo.

Este tipo de historias reales nos hacen pensar que todo no es color de rosa y que Dios para nosotros los creyentes es quien nos ayudará a crecer cada día.

¿Cuéntame qué opinas de esta historia, del padre de Victoria?
Si te salieran quistes cuál fuera tu reacción?
¿Que otra observación ves en esta historia?

Déjame tus respuestas en los comentarios Los estaré leyendo.

Si os llegaste a este punto muchísimas gracias, espero volver a verte en mis próximos post.

Bye.


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Thanks for sharing! I think I would go to the doctor, and if funds were an issue, I'd talk to my church family and my friends and family. Just a consult might be enough to ease all the stress not knowing creates.

Take care!

Hello, you are right, what a pity that sometimes fear is the protagonist.

Indeed!🤗💜

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