A question no doubt quite intense and even personal you could say, here is my answer to it, although I think I ended up more tangled than I started hahaha
https://peakd.com/hive-123046/@fmbs25/our-tastes-and-our-memories-play-a-big-role-why-do-we-fall-in-love-with-certain-people-and-why-it-is-so-hard-to-get-over-someone