Thanks for the input. It will all work out, one way or the other. I need to get very clear within myself on what I want to manifest and whether I still want to be on this land or not. It's clear to me that the original idea of a completely shared community isn't going to happen here. As Alex discovered, a better approach is to have individual plots.
When I went to that theater land I was wondering about that mansion. It seemed too close to your friend's building. Now I understand.
Indeed, that house is not exactly what we like having next door. Fortunately the owner is a great guy and a good neighbor. But yeah... I wonder what the place will look like in a few years.