Another banger from my favorite community. this week edition of the Ecotrain challenge is interesting I'm in love the topic already... I'm going to list out things that I developed or I have been doing that I'm not proud of..
they are;
shinny syndrome victim
I'm a very victim of shinny syndrome..
the was a certain time I want to go into blogging, all preparation was made, I bought a domain get a host all a sudden my friend that is into e-commerce make have a million from e-commerce..
this make me abandoned my project started chasing after e-commerce..
not on knowing Even tho I was focusing on my blogging I'll still reach that level or I'll still make that kind money.. this wasa very serious problems to me ..
it makes me not to focus in a particular thing.. it also happen to me on another of my project that I was planning to do..
I planned to build a saas software after my completion of my software developer training.. I figured out everything.. that's how to market the product,, what the software will do and it's competitors..
all of a sudden my friend that is a developer also did some amazing work.. he developed a nice game..
very interesting game that I still have on my PC today.... he make a couple of bugs from it.. me that was planning on sass software.. I changed my mind to launch Game... the list continue....
I'm so happy this habits is no more to found in me.. I'm 100% focus..inferiority.
yes I was a victim of this... always look down on myself thinking that i don't deserve a particular thing because of my present condition in life.. years back I found out no matter the class we found ourselves that we're the same.. no matter the Money you have..or the investment we make we're all the die... I'm not happy of this habits of mind I'm so happy that I have get rid of it now..
Chasing money and forgot about my health..
I work so much hard sometimes that I forgot the main important thing which is my health.. they was one certain time in my that I had a contract with a school. to launch their students database. this was a huge project for me ..my first job since I graduated as a software developer.... I was not feeling too well . I was planning to go and check for my health but since I got the job I suspended the trip and accepted the job..
I didn't not even complete the work tho.. I felt ill that even make me suspend the job..Always sad for something that doesn't Worth it.
there was certain time I started developed the habits of been sads.. not happy because that I couldn't get what happened or what I planned didn't work out.. this will put me in a bad mood .. and this will affect everybody that is close to me...now that I realized that sometimes not everything you want or you need you have it.. not having that Time doesn't mean you won't have it.. just for you to put in hard work and be consistent..
consistent is the key of everything.. those little effort you put out everyday one day will amount for a big thing...
I learnt something from your post which is the shinny syndrome and to say that those habits are really toxic for you: the first "lack of focus and contentment" the second "inferiority complex" and the third "being sad over things that do not matter"
One thing about us is that we are unique and until we realize that, we can never be happy with ourselves. Not being focused can make one lose track of many good things and wanting to compare yourself to others is very bad too. And the last, getting sad with everything. It isn't everything we expect to work for us, things are bound to happen and make our expectations shift but when we understand that life isn't always in favor of us, we would be at peace with ourselves.
I am glad those habits are getting erased from you and striving to becoming a better person.
Thanks for sharing your personal experience with us.
Thanks you very much...
I really appreciate
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