Oh gosh, I'm so sorry you're having to deal with that loss. I can certainly imagine that these things would be on your mind at the moment. I have to admit that when you put things in perspective, bickering and trying to find victimisation in the names of things just comes across as petty. I sometimes wonder if it's human nature to want to find something to fight against, even in the easiest of situations. Do we search for evil?
I've only just today seen something on Kabul and the Taliban, which was included in passing in a rant on something else, so I wasn't really aware of this news.
Hugs and stay safe and strong.