It has been a long time since I cried tears of joy, halfway through your post did it. YOU ARE GETTING A BUILDING TO LIVE IN, HEP HEP HURRAY!!!
Can you put your building on your land backward, where the door does not face the road, or maybe sideways? I am so excited for you.
I am happy that you realize what I have been trying to tell you about slowing down on the DZ. IDK if it was mother's instinct but somehow I knew you were getting overly stressed.
Do you remember Stephen Shatto? He had a stroke and the doctors are giving him a 50% chance of making it, he is still in a coma.